riggs Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 I'm a courier for a national delivery company and for the past year have had an attractive bank teller on my route. She has never done anything that would give me the idea she wants to see or talk to me outside her job, but she still is glad to see me and makes a point to say more than just hello. I asked her once if she had a boyfriend and she does, but her approach to me hasn't changed. I want to ask her again if she would like to talk more, but have an idea it would be pointless. Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Need a question if you want input Link to post Share on other sites
Author riggs Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 Well, what do you think? Is it just an innocent crush or does she maybe harbor some feelings toward me? Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 I would think innocent crush, unless there has been more of a chance to get to know you than it seems. However, that is a great place to start if you are into her. The boyfriend thing would scare me off, but having a boyfriend can mean anything from ready to marry to desperate to get away from that jerk. It definitely sounds like she has at least some level of interest. Is that what you are hoping for? Link to post Share on other sites
Author riggs Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 My instincts tell me it's an innocent crush, but I will try to engage her in a little more conversation the next few times I see her. Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Most great relationships start with a small crush. It doesn't have to be all out infatuation to go somewhere. I'd trust your instincts, but don't dismiss it. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author riggs Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 It used to drive me nuts. She isn't the flirty, floozy type but she would lean towards me and smile. It stopped for awhile I've noticed it started up again. Link to post Share on other sites
mermermer Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 I've worked in female dominate jobs ever since I've been in the workforce... And frankly, I'm just happy to see men! They have different views, they offer different conversation. If she's in a relationship, she's probably just happy to see you. Nothing more, nothing less. Workplace flirting is common, and most of the times meaningless. It might benefit you to view it as such. Enjoy her company, but dont put much stock into it. Link to post Share on other sites
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