lovernotfighter Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 I went out on a date with a guy exactly a week ago. I see him at work most days, but starting today I will not see him for 4 days. I really want to call him, but don't know if it's too soon considering the work situation. I would like to do something with him on one of these 4 days, but don't want to be too smothery. Please give input! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 I really want to call him, but don't know if it's too soon considering the work situation I'm not quite sure what you mean by that. If you see this guy at work almost everyday why do you feel the need to call him? Can't you speak to him at work? Regardless, if you want to call him then pick up the phone and call the guy. I take it he gave you his number and that would indicate to me that at some time he expects that you would call. Also, I don't see how one date and one phone call can be construed as being smothering. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotfighter Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Yes, I was asking if it was appropriate to call this guy on his days off since I have been seeing him at work anyways. I know calling him a week after a date would be too late if I didn't see him more often, but I do. My question was just if it was too much to see him at work, then call. I should point out all the days I have seen him at work he has been sick (since the date), so it was inappropriate for me to ask him out after work. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 That sounds like the perfect pretext on which to call him - you know he's sick, call and ask how he is feeling and then lead the conversation to going out together again when he's feeling better. Link to post Share on other sites
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