What can i do to stop loving her

[tom_gbr]

its also been two months that me and my ex have been apart from each other and its been over a week since we last had contact with each other...but it wasnt good contact as it turned into an arguement as i think she was a little jealous that i went to stay with this girl i know on the coast.

 

we were together for 6 amazing months and she is also my first love and the first girl that i have been intamate with.

 

she finished it because her life is really stressful right now and she really doesnt need a boyfriend in her life right now....also she didnt say it but i know it was another reason...i think she wants to see what else is out there and she is still very young...she told me that she still loved me when we broke up....we were both contacting each other but it goit thinner on her side when i kept trying to get her back....the only contact now seems to come from me,,,i have phoned her twice in the last month....the conversation was OK but it was like we were competeing with one another.

 

i know she is moving on...i had that she has been talking to this guy she met...i dont know whats happening though.

 

i think i still love her and i know i really miss her...she was so beautiful and funny i was so lucky to have her.

 

i really dont know why im holding on to her though....its obvious shes moving on so i should be...its so hard though when you dont want someone else you just want your ex.

 

it makes it worse that she lives two hours away..some people would say thats a good thing but because of this distance gap theres no chance i could just meet up with her for a chat or something.

 

she said it would mean a lot to her if we came out of this relationship as close friends....but the way things have been i dont think thats going to happen....after all a friendship is 50 / 50 and it only seems like me doing all the calling and texting...i think this might be because she thinks that if she contacts me she will be giving me hope that she will come back or that i will find it harder to move on.

 

i dont know what im thinking or feeling anymore...a part of me wants her back more than anything but the other part of me wants to move on.

 

i know i shouldnt but i might text her tonight just to see how she is and to see if her mum got the wedding card that i sent....i just want to know really that she isnt annoyed with me since the last time we text each other

[Nubemeister]

All I have to say is that it takes time and a lot of working on yourself.

I know it sounds tiring people telling you the same thing over and over, but its true. I thought

I would never get over my ex or that I would love him always. I don't love him now, I care. I've come to realize that. Now I'm ok. He's ok...

It's just time I believe.

[pecr]

i guess only time will tell, i cant say i wont get over her, i know i will but right now this chest pain and this anxiety is killing me, i havent heard from her, i havent seen her and thats just driving me insane, man i am just dying over here. i need some sleeping pills so i can sleep this time away.

 

someone please help, tell me what to think, tell me what to do, and please help me understand that this is over.

 

 

Ny friend...the most painful thing about being a guy in love with a woman who has made the choice to leave you is that guys are supposed to be tough. I was (and this in no lie) one tough bastard until i fell in love with a woman who had pursued me for 2 years...once i commited..that was it...she left...it is the most painful heart wrenching thing you can through..if you met me you would never guess I could be such a weak, crying baby.

 

I am 200 pounds of muscle, i make good money and most men are scared to even look at me...but this girl reduced me to nothing and I have been there for 3 months now..I cry and drink and take pills to sleep...all of it bro...I even thought of taking my own life. Let's you and I agree to be men again...woman do not respond to weakness...and they also very rarely change their minds....ITS OVER....**** her and show her she means nothing to you...get working out man...get a new girl...get into yourself...I will make you deal...you do it and I will too...OK???