prayingshecomesback Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 What a journey to say the least. Lived with the girl I was in a serious relationship with from 27-30 (3 years of my life), and she left me for another man. I proposed to her during the breakup and she told me no in the harshest of ways. I packed up my stuff, slammed the door and never contacted her again. I have been dating a new girl for 1 year 4 months now and I am ready to propose again. This time I know I am marrying the right girl for the right reasons. There are times I wonder what ever happened to my ex. There are times when I want to look her up. I have gone 2 years 2 months NC. She must have thought I was weak. She must have thought I needed her and would be contacting her over and over. She must have thought I couldn't do better. She thought wrong. I don't even have to take my revenge. For God says, "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows." She sowed evil and she will reap evil. Comforting to know that! Link to post Share on other sites
todd Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 Not to be mean, but why are you even bringing this up now. Its been over 2 yrs of NC with your ex and it sounds like you still have a vendetta against her for telling you that things weren't meant to be. It sounds like she never thought you were weak, she never thought you would come back, and never thought of what happened to you. If she was thinking of you, she probably would of tried contacting you, but the truth is she moved on a long time ago when she told you it wasn't working. Don't bring up the past, focus on the future with your new potential wife. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayingshecomesback Posted September 17, 2011 Author Share Posted September 17, 2011 "sounds like you still have a vendetta against her for telling you that things weren't meant to be." Um she cheated on me and lied about it. Left me for another man. Far from just telling me things were not meant to be. The breakup was extremely difficult to take and took a while to get over. I am focused on the future and ready to live the rest of my life with my soon to be wife. I just wanted to let fellow LS'ers know that if I can go over 2 years without contacting the ex than they can do it too. Not to sound conceded, but I guarantee you she has thought about me during these 2 years. Unless she is not human, anybody that has that closeness with somebody for that long of time has had thoughts of them. Not that she wants to come back, but she has got to be wondering what happened to me when I dropped off the face of the earth. Link to post Share on other sites
todd Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 The way she told you that things weren't meant to be might of been pretty crappy (Showing you by cheating on you), but none the less that is what was being said. Did she ever try to contact you in those two years.. random texts, phone calls, email, facebook messages, actually trying to meet you? If not I suspect she moved on the moment she ripped your heart out and never looked back. Not that it matters because you shouldn't be thinking about her still after two years and having hate for her after all this time. There is a fine line between hate and love. You should be indifferent to your ex. You should be living your life as if she doesn't even exist in your mind anymore. You shouldn't be posting on a forum how you think your ex HAD to be thinking about you because you stopped talking to her. That is what she wanted from you. Link to post Share on other sites
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