shortee143 Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 this thread makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside... my ex of 6years did all of the things being discussed here. we bought a house together i was going to propose... ya know the american dream. then she tells me shes not happy and she wants a break. 2 weeks later theres another dude. me being stupid i maintained contact and she would take every chance to tell me how much hes into her, the way he looks into he eyes, how much they had in common and just how happy she was.. fast forward 8 months and 6 on NC she got dumped by him for her friend:)... guess whos calling and texting... Ugh, my ex too used to tell me how wonderful, beautiful, etc his new gf is...like wtf!! what are you trying to prove!....haha, that must give you some satisfaction having her get dumped like that than come "crawling" back! My immature side prays my ex gets his!! Link to post Share on other sites
Coupedriver Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 this thread makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside... my ex of 6years did all of the things being discussed here. we bought a house together i was going to propose... ya know the american dream. then she tells me shes not happy and she wants a break. 2 weeks later theres another dude. me being stupid i maintained contact and she would take every chance to tell me how much hes into her, the way he looks into he eyes, how much they had in common and just how happy she was.. fast forward 8 months and 6 on NC she got dumped by him for her friend:)... guess whos calling and texting... Damn I feel good now..!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wesker Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 Wesker (Resident Evil?), What is it with the 7 8 year mark/itch that drives them to seek the perceived greener grass? AND sacrafice (in family situations) the future outcome of their chidren and family bond/legacy. Many opinions expressed on this thread reign true for me also. I cant fu(king quote yet; (yes Im sure its a piece of pi$$) The minimal time between then end and start of relationships... ie; Wilsonx's monkey on the branch thing.... The needing to let u know how great things are.... Potentially the "opposite mate" thing... The dopamine high of it all..... Needing to be friends, and/or seek your approval of said new flame.... Jeff mentions strong women, those from broken marriage, survivors if u wanna call em that. That type of role model only perpetuates this belief behind not needing a man, and breeds girls/women who chase the fairy tale of marriage anf family, only to feel repressed and destroy it to seek "freedom". Ha. You're the 2nd person to reference Wesker from Resident Evil; and yes that is what I based my handle on. He made the RE games fun to play, and is totally badass. I remember my ex telling me when she was dumping me "I feel like I just have to see what else is out there". This after I asked her if there was someone else, and who it was, and she looked me in the eye, and said there wasn't. What??? Talk about hypocritical lie. Seeing what else is out there means you have someone else in mind!! Duh, not winning!! It's that king of crap that she always pulled that will prolly get her dumped in a year, or vise versa. Either way, even if she got on her hands and knees; and begged me back. I still wouldn't. It doesn't matter if I love her, or still did at that point in time. The trust level is totally shattered beyond repair. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 (edited) My ex met someone about a month ago, and though they are not "facebook official", I just noticed in the little side thumbnail photos that he changed his profile pic to one of him and her. SERIOUSLY! WTF? He never had one of him and I. I feel like he is being over the top cheesy with her just to show off. He tagged himself at a place... "In good company" at her place. Really? Come on! I like to think I am doing better, but I am not. It makes me angry and hurt all over again. Edited October 6, 2011 by ScienceGal Link to post Share on other sites
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