madsurgeon Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 i married my 7 year boyfriend 2 years ago. the past 2 years have been extremely stressful. i've found myself planning my life around him. before that i didn't know where i was headed and i liked that i didn;t know. now, everything seems predictable and i feel restrained. we're fighting all the time. he gives me no space and takes me for granted. i could go on and give some specifics but fact is, i'm not happy. i don't care abt how i look anymore, lost interest in my hobbies, wake up feeling depressed and altogether not focussed about what's important. recently, i've found myself attracted to another man. he's quite, to himself and definitely does not feel the same way abt me. but i find myself looking for reasons to be around him. i don't want to go to bed with him. i just want to be around him. it's a weird feeling. i don't know what to do. i'm losing myself and this new guy has been taking up a lot of my attention. i feel weak and lost. someone tell me this is just a phase and that i'll come around... Link to post Share on other sites
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