Hollywood11 Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Long story short met girl was dating girl now i am engaged to this girl. Things were fine when we werent dating. Then get worse as we get more serious. What i mean for example is she never nagged when we werent dating, but it got progressivly worse. She wants certain parts about me to change to please her some are alright like talk more in public and what not. But some like have to smile more and stuff like that what the hell. Anyways i feel she is taking me for granted and has gotten to comfortable with this engagement and has forgotten that hey! even though im a guy i like to know i am cared about and like it shown to me. She nags about things i do and i swear she wants me to change so i am just like her. Im getting sick of the nagging and want her to realize im getting sick of it. And yes we talk, but it hasnt worked So anyways we dated when we lived in the same city, but i moved 40 mins away to a university so because of my work scedule we only see each other once a week. Well work and school have me booked so i wont be able to see her for 2 weeks. So i basically told her for those 2 weeks we aint talking/communicating and in those 2 weeks i want you to decide if i am really the guy for you. I said im getting sick of being kicked around and its not going to happen anymore so in two weeks decide what you want and if things dont change then i am leaving for good. Do you think im being to harsh or is it just what she needs? Id really appreciate any response, im only doing this because i think its for the better and i hope it doesnt blow up in my face. Link to post Share on other sites
maria_patheticsoul Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 IMO you did right...i think it's not right to change a person into someone to your own liking. She should love you for what and who you are. She should know that a person dont change just because the bf or the gf wants a change in the character department. I think if she can not accept you for being you she will have a hard time dealing with the "space" that each of you needs to have even if you get married. I hope she will realize that and i hope everything will be ok between the two of you. Link to post Share on other sites
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