derek519 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 I've been dating this girl for only 2 months, which I know is extremely short amount of time. Shes a single mom with 2 kids, so I decide the first date would be nice to take them all out for pizza. She said no other guy has ever taken her kids like that. We connect really well and she said she's never been with a guy so sweet and made her feel so happy. She has two ex husbands. One was really abusive, the other has cheater on her 5 times and is now remarried. We start seeing eachother a lot and we both seemed incredibly happy. One night I come over and shes talking on the Phone with someone saying " I love you to" and "I promise". She said it was her friend from a while back. I knew it was a lie. We hung out 2 more days and everything seems Normal. Then she stops answering my calls and text. 5 days later I talk to her friend and she moved to Texas with the ex that cheated on her. I feel so incredibly low... I cared so much for her and her kids and I wasnt worth a goodbYe?? I know the time was short but I never connected so fast with someone so quickly.. I just feel full of regret, I should of confronted her that night with the phone call.. Link to post Share on other sites
stopthemadness Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 I've been dating this girl for only 2 months, which I know is extremely short amount of time. Shes a single mom with 2 kids, so I decide the first date would be nice to take them all out for pizza. She said no other guy has ever taken her kids like that. We connect really well and she said she's never been with a guy so sweet and made her feel so happy. She has two ex husbands. One was really abusive, the other has cheater on her 5 times and is now remarried. We start seeing eachother a lot and we both seemed incredibly happy. One night I come over and shes talking on the Phone with someone saying " I love you to" and "I promise". She said it was her friend from a while back. I knew it was a lie. We hung out 2 more days and everything seems Normal. Then she stops answering my calls and text. 5 days later I talk to her friend and she moved to Texas with the ex that cheated on her. I feel so incredibly low... I cared so much for her and her kids and I wasnt worth a goodbYe?? I know the time was short but I never connected so fast with someone so quickly.. I just feel full of regret, I should of confronted her that night with the phone call.. In the long run..she did you a favor. I think ALL ex's should live far far away. Link to post Share on other sites
Duckduckgoose Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 So the ex that cheated on her remarried and she moved in with him? This ought to be hilarious. Sorry she duped you. One thing I've found out about being divorced and considering divorced people I might want to date is WHY ARE THEY DIVORCED? Her first husband was abusive... okay seems legit... her second husband was a serial cheater... hmm... sounds like she knows how to pick em. Serial cheater guy is now cheating on his wife with his ex wife... nice touch. One divorce is a red flag. Two is a flaming banner Three or more and I would just leave them be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author derek519 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Share Posted September 21, 2011 Don't know if I did the right thing.. I went ahead and told his wife everything. She was blown away. She was told he was out of town since he's in the airforce. I feel better that she knows though Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Well regardless of the fact that you only dated her for a couple months, the way she handled things was callous. From what I understand though, most single parents take time to get to know someone before involving their children. So not to knock you for trying, but the fact that she was so quick to let you into that aspect of her life is also a bit of a red flag. Link to post Share on other sites
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