After one month of NC Ex sends me this text, How do I take it?

[MIK1000]

I know it hurts, and it will for a long time, but look at this way. She hasn't learned anything and probably won't either, but you'll be able to walk away from this stronger and learn from it.

 

 

 

That means alot. This is probably the most devistating but character shaping thing that's ever happened to me in 20 years of life and it will no doubt be instrumental to the shaping of me as a human being especially for future relationships.

 

She will stroll past this though and continue with her new bf who is long distance and undobutedly fail until she meets someone new wether it be a uni or work, it doesn't matter. She's the sort of person that can't stand being alone and will attempt to settle down with the next man that shows he cares.

[Janik]

What you're describing right now is exactly what happened with my ex boyfriend and I. Although both of our exes won't ever be alone, they'll never be happy because they can't face growing up and learning from their past by themselves.

 

Even in the future they'll be the type to jump from relationship to relationship not caring what happens to those who hurt them, and it'll come back to bite them in the ass ten times harder.

[TheDovic]

Do you think "Fine thanks" was a good answer? Showed no interest in how she was doing but was still polite and civil.

 

Yes, it's short and to the point and shows you're not rude (and ulimately upset about her anymore - even if you are) and it shows indifference, which will get her thinking

[MIK1000]

Yes, it's short and to the point and shows you're not rude (and ulimately upset about her anymore - even if you are) and it shows indifference, which will get her thinking

 

That's what I thought. It would take more effort for me to not reply rather than just give a plain, civil and disinterested reply. I had actually deleted her number but recognised the digits when it came up on my phone but I thought about replying saying "Hi I'm good thinks. Sorry don't have this number, who is this?" but I thought she would know i was bluffing.