Paper Roses Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Hi. I didn't see any catagories for internet romance, so I'll put my problem here. I don't want to bore you with so many details, I might lose you. I met this guy 6 years ago on myspace and we have maintained a LDR since. For 3 years I waited for this guy to make a move, he never did and I moved on (or tried to) by marrying a guy I was seeing. I never stopped talking to my online guy and I know that was wrong but I somehow justfied it by telling myself since we weren't in the same room, it was okay. So, very NOT okay. In Feb. me and online guy had little tiff. I had called him, he didn't answer and didn't bother to return my call for a week, I stopped calling him. Since then he's been calling right about once a week, which was fine by me. His calls started taking a nasty tone and he was rarely nice to me. As we all know, the better you know a person the easier it is to hurt them and he was going after me every time he called. So, I stopped answering his calls. In July I decided to leave my marriage and right about the same time I told my online guy that he was being too mean to me and I needed him to leave me alone for awhile and if he still missed me he should call me in October. Two weeks ago he zipped me a text that read "I miss you something terrible. " Yesterday I had a weak moment and texted back that I missed him too. Naturally, he's ignoring it. He's playing games with me and I know it. He doesn't want me and never wanted me. It was a fun little game for him and for awhile I bought all of it (like a jerk). Now, I'm thinking he's bored with this game. My question? I know that when a person could care less about you, you can't really hurt him. I fight with myself every second of the day to not text him or call him or even consider his existance and I've lost that battle. I love him so much and want him in life any way I can get him but I really don't plan on him ever finding that out. Is the best way to put this guy in his place to completely ignore him or tell him i'm done? Is this immature and stupid? Yes, it sure is. Okay, now you can rip me apart. Any advice would be most appreciated though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paper Roses Posted September 23, 2011 Author Share Posted September 23, 2011 (edited) I just read what I wrote. Any of you guys have any idea where all the hostility came from. I think it was because I stopped calling him. Was the hostility an ego thing? Edited September 23, 2011 by Paper Roses typo Link to post Share on other sites
country_gurl Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 I just read what I wrote. Any of you guys have any idea where all the hostility came from. I think it was because I stopped calling him. Was the hostility an ego thing? Why would you even care? This isn't someone you ever even MET IN PERSON, what kind of relationship can you have with someone you've never met in person? Why would you waste your time and energy and thoughts on someone who plays games with you and is, according to you, very hostile? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paper Roses Posted September 23, 2011 Author Share Posted September 23, 2011 You know what? You are freakin' right. I needed that! Thank you. I mean it. Link to post Share on other sites
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