I've never been in so much heartache...

[SoMovinOn]

There's gotta be a less painful way to lose weight.

 

One that doesn't involve a MM?????

 

GG

 

I was about to have a lot of fun with this, but I don't want to HJ the thread.

[SunsetRed]

Sounds like there's an opportunity for a new diet plan! I just need to make an infomercial guaranteeing women they will lose at least 20 lbs if they pay me $100. Once I have their money, I call them up, profess my love, them dump them!

 

Lol, but SMO, you'd have to also give them a dream to hold onto. Don't just at like a boyfriend, act like a husband and make them feel like they have something real. Then when the women are hooked, pull the rug and dream right from under their feet. Immediately go back to the Wife (the one you said you were separated from) and live the dream with her.

 

I swear this is the best diet ever. I was on here last year, and many of the women who were on here then are not here now, but all of us were losing weight. All of us also agreed that a break up with an MM is one of the worst break ups we've been through. My break up has been worse than my divorce. When I divorced my husband, its because he was a BAd husband and I didnt want him anymore. MM felt like the husband that I wanted and then he left.

[So Very Confused]

Shakti,

 

I'm so sorry for your pain. I know what you are going through (sort of) and it's so hard. It does get better though. Some days are better, some are worse and some are the same, but gradually you will start feeling better.

 

Please don't let your fears that your friends will worry about you prevent you from reaching out to them. It really will make you feel better to have someone to talk to about all this. And keep posting. LS has helped me so much and it's helped a lot of others too. We can't take away the pain, but we can sympathize with you.

[shakti]

Thank you SoVeryConfused, I told my sister yesterday, just by email, I can't actually 'talk' about it right now. I'm getting there and leaving my apartment now and just putting all that love I had for him, all that energy I and love, I'm trying to turn it round and focus on who really needs it, that is me. I will keep on reading for sure as you all have been tremendously helpful. Thank you again.

[fooled once]

Shakti,

 

I hope today is finding you stronger and you are beginning to move forward. Yes, ending an affair hurts; you are left wondering "was it all a lie", "how could he/she", "now what", and a host of other questions. Questions you will honestly never get an answer to. I hope you know that you have to find closure within YOU. He can't make it hurt less. Only time can do that.

 

Here are 2 threads I urge you to read. The first one is writing what you would say to him if you could....and I am urging you to NOT contact him because it is only going to hurt and cause you more pain.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t297146

 

The second one is about NC (no contact).

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t293997/

 

I hope as each day goes by you get more clarify and you begin to heal. Only you can heal yourself. Look inside yourself and see if you can figure out if it was "HIM" you loved or was it the attention he gave you. You have found out what a liar he is; how untrustworthy he is and how he doesn't deserve your heart. I wish you well.

[shakti]

Thank you Fooled Once. I have read through them all, even found myself laughing a little. I am getting through this, slowly but surely. He's an ass. I just have to keep reminding myself that when I miss him. I'm having better moments now but there are still lows. I will keep NC because that is the only thing that empowers me right now. Hugs.

[RickFox]

There's gotta be a less painful way to lose weight.

 

One that doesn't involve a MM?????

 

GG

 

Crack or Meth is quite effective if you don't mind that you'll become it's b*tch as well. lol.

 

Here's hoping a little levity helps us all.