action Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Hi! I was in a relationship for 3 months with someone who rarely had any time for me at all. She didn't have any time because she went to school, worked full-time, and had tonnes of homework. As a result of this she was failing a class, and was getting in trouble with her parents. I decided to confront her about not spending any time with me, because it felt asthough she didn't want to spend time with me. I told her it seems like she doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. She said it's just that she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. Now, I know we were only together for a short time and in a previous topic this was noted as the 'trial period'. But I feel as though we never really got to know eachother because we never spent time together. I told her that it doesn't bother me if we don't spend time together now, because I know that we would be able to in the future (when she is done school). But she said that she would like her spare time to be able to find herself. She just got out of a dependant relationship and after feeling like a 'we' for so long, she wants to feel like a 'me'. She also said that it would be unfair for me to wait for her, and not experience new relationships, because I wouldn't be happy. I asked her if she thinks that we will be able to get back together when she has more time. She said maybe. But she doesn't want to hold me back. The fact that she is willing to let me go proves how great she is. But I can't help but feel asthough I did something wrong that she won't tell me. Although we barely spent time together. The time I did spend with her was amazing. I can't let someone so great go so easily. Do you think it would be a good idea for me to keep in touch with her? Give her time? And try in the future? Or does it seem as though I am full of false hope? Does it sound like I could have done something wrong? And, do you think there is a good chance for us to get back together? Link to post Share on other sites
pixiegrrl28 Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Just give her the space she needs. Link to post Share on other sites
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