tom_gbr Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 just thought id ask everyone how did you take it when you find out that your ex is seeing someone else? seeing that person who you love and adored and spent so much time and precious moments with with someone who probably doesnt even appreciate or really care for her? my ex isnt seeing anyone i dont think but iw as wondering how everyone else coped when this happened? Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Originally posted by tom_gbr just thought id ask everyone how did you take it when you find out that your ex is seeing someone else? seeing that person who you love and adored and spent so much time and precious moments with with someone who probably doesnt even appreciate or really care for her? my ex isnt seeing anyone i dont think but iw as wondering how everyone else coped when this happened? i know my ex is with some high school chick...it broke my heart at first..now im just angry at both of them Link to post Share on other sites
Nubemeister Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 I went through that period before. I found out my ex is with someone else and I was upset and angry. I was pretty pissed now that I think about it, but now I don't care about it much. You go through the emotions. They were once part of you and now they are not and they are sharing something that you thought was only for you alone at that time. Now, he is happy with someone else and I'm ok. It just takes time. Worry about yourself and not them.... do other things. Right now, it is going to matter, but eventually it will all just be ok. You will be ok Link to post Share on other sites
Durden Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 I had the pleasure of being told by my ex that she had two men!! Was angry at first then, thought sod it! She needed the practice anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 12, 2004 Share Posted May 12, 2004 Wouldn't bother me at all! Link to post Share on other sites
Dixiecron Posted May 13, 2004 Share Posted May 13, 2004 I feel sorry for my ex's new guy. Someone should have warned him Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 13, 2004 Share Posted May 13, 2004 Imagine this.... took time to trust my ex, slowly felt love seeping into my heart, began trusting, one and half years later found out he's been seeing a woman that his family arranged for him to get married with. I had a huge quarrel, didnt get much closure, drove me to drinking, nearly lost everything else, thought i'd never love again, felt cheated, thought about suicide, i just kept myself busy with gym, dance classes, movies non stop, reading, complaining on websites similar to this and now..... more than a year has passed, i am falling in love again. Sigh! although current relationship is not really going 'great' but looking back at my own case with my ex, OMG he's such a ba**ard and i am glad to have walked away. he came back begging just recently, i turned a deaf ear. see no point in going down that road anymore. when we go through a heartbreak we thought we'd die, but in actual fact we'd only wished we did. all of us will survive and look back and laugh. look for the silver lining in the rain clouds and keep your eyes focused on them . Link to post Share on other sites
sigh Posted May 13, 2004 Share Posted May 13, 2004 i hv been visiting this forum on and off for a long time now... i broke up with my ex last yr...actually he broke up with me after cheating on me.. anyway, we were on 'no contact' and i used to hv bad relapses which got less frequent On 11th May, a classmate of mine proposed me and when we started talking, i got to know how crazily he had loved me all these yrs...even when i was with my ex... He respects me, loves me and wants a future..this relationship is different than my previous one but its still beautiful... and i hv just gotten started anyway About my ex, well he became interested in my best friend and she sort of responded. I was broken to pieces.. I am a medical student and hv lots to study all the time... and these events certainly did affect my studies.. But i knew i deserved better.. and held on.. i would like all of us to believe in fate and ourselves.. and yea.. the REAL TEST of getting over ur ex IS not bothering who hes/shes with Hope we all find true love Link to post Share on other sites
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