SCG_Sasa1111 Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 One of my best friends who I have been hanging out with since 2008 told me he saw my ex and her new bf ( the guy she left our 4.5 yr relationship for because of GIGS) on campus at our University. We both go to the same university, but different programs. What he told me kinda shocked me and it made me relieved and happy in a way - because it gave me the satisfaction knowing that I was right all along. When he described me her. I was pretty taken back. He knows her since 2008 so he has been around for a while when we were dating. We started dating in jan 2006 and broke up november 2010. He said that he never saw anyone look like she did. He said she was pale as a ghost, she looked like she hasn't slept in weeks. He said she is the skinniest he has ever seen her and that she looked completley out of it. He also told me that she was at least a foot or two away from her new "BF". He also said that she made eye contact with him and that she realized it was him she looked at him and was really awkward because she knows me and him are really good friends so it prob triggered something inside her that reminded her of me.Point is he told me that I NEEDED To see how she looked to TRULY understand what he meant and he also said that I SHOULD BE HAPPY i am not with her anymore because according to him she looks not even 1 percent of how she did when she was with me. So him telling me this really really gave me mixed emotions because in one hand i was truly happy- why? because one of my best friends- an outsider to our relationship is telling me she hasn't looked liek this ever. Another thing is that no one agreed with what she did to me and how she just left the relationship we had for 4.5 years. Her friends, her sister, my friends- everyone said that she was crazy for leaving 4.5 yrs behind- especially to the guy she is with now. I knew this right away- if he was a better man, a better person id b liek okay i understand why she did it. I was a jerk? NO I treated her bad ? NO I did everything i could for her ? YES. Everyone around her respected me and loved me and yet after all that she still did what she did..GIGS no explanation.. What I am trying to get at..is that I felt a huge sense of satisfaction knowing she was suffering with him- when she ended it with me she thought she would be happy and he would give her something I couldn't - well according to my friend she looks like the walking death and its talking a toll on her. I am a good person and I don't wish wrong on anyone but after what she put me through hearing this news was one of the best things that could have happened because it truly gives me the confidence that I was always right and she would not be better off without me- no matter what I knew the day she left me for him that she would regret it and it would get her back- like they say do not do anything. let them realize it on their own. well according to him . I DIDN'T HAVE TO - her actions led her to this fate. I am just happy and satisfied knowing she is suffering without me after letting me go so easily. thinking i was replaceable; truly a feeling you cannot describe. 10 months on...im starting to be happy again It's sad waht she ended up messing up but thats what you get when you leave something that you don't truly appreciate. Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 yeah its like knowing an ex became really fat lol... but remember looks are not everything... she could become tanned and curvy just as easily and become beautiful again... women and weight fluctuate more than oil prices. Link to post Share on other sites
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