sadmomma4 Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 My husband and I have been together for 12 yrs and married for almost 10yrs. I know communication is very important. We have gotten to the point now that we sleep as far away from eachother. We have separate blankets and we don't even touch each other. When we do have sex its once every month to 2 months in between. Of course when we do get together he does not touch me. I pull my own pants down and he tries to get it done very quickly. Of course there is NO pleasing me. I have tried talking to him and even blamed myself for our distance. He just gets mad and quits talking to me for the night. I have mentioned marriage counseling but he refuses. I even went to the point of buying a sexy night gown to spice things up, but instead he tells me its not that sexy, and totally ruined the moment. I know he is not cheating. I take him to work and pick him up. I have all money and can contact him at anytime. Is there still hope for this marriage, or is it time to call it quits? Any advice would be great. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 I'm sorry you're in this situation. I recommend reading the book Radical Honesty. It's helped me communicate better in my relationship, with increased emotional intimacy as a result. Having said that, it takes two and if he's not willing to do his part it's difficult to really move it to a different level. Link to post Share on other sites
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