iheartsuki Posted September 27, 2011 Share Posted September 27, 2011 i've posted about this before, but....there is a girl who is friends with my bf's mom. she doesn't know my bf well...has only talked to him in person a few times, but contacts him occasionally (used to be a lot more often) through text and fb -- never in public though -- and has a lot in common with him. she plays golf, she's interested in cars (she ran into him at a car show he went to once), and she likes the same baseball team he's passionate about. i don't even like sports. last year, she was able to get playoff tickets for my bf and his dad -- they paid her back for them, but met up with her there for awhile. last week, she mentioned to him that she may be able to get playoff tickets again. i DO have jealousy issues about other stupid things, but this same girl has dated a guy in the past who had another gf at the time she was w/ him. my bf says there's no proof of that and claims she just a nice person and doing something nice. he's really excited about potentially getting these tickets....and is telling me that it's really wrong for me to be upset that he's getting something so awesome. he's says it's stupid for me to be suspicious when one of his parents will be there along w/ other people (such as her brother). he already knows how i feel about him hanging out and talking with this girl and he says that not hanging out w/ her or talking to her is 'coddling my insecurities', and that i'm being crazy. i don't feel like i am in this case. it seems to me like she MUST have a closer friend who would want those tickets just as badly as my bf does...so why him? why is she getting great deals for HIM? when i ask him this he just says "i don't know, maybe there isn't anyone else to give them to" or he says "she's really close friends with my mom, so she's doing something nice for the people my mom cares about". i don't know what to think. i don't feel like my feelings are ever taken into consideration. and if he feels like he's not doing anything wrong, but i do, should he still respect my feelings? Link to post Share on other sites
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