Author cracker2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Author Share Posted October 4, 2011 Thanks girls.. For the replies..really appreciate it xxx I just felt that if he really loved me he would be happy to see me. He wud be happy to be around me and be physical again. We haven't seen each other in 9weeks..longest time we have been apart. How can u say u love someone and miss then but in the next breath.. Tell them basically not to come visit. I just don't understand I'm wondering now is there someone else on the scene..but like I have given him every opportunity to break up with me..even suggesting we take a break but he doesn't want that. I know I have done wrong by breaking up with him but surely he can see that I must really love him..this is my second time trying to visit him in the last 3weeks. I'm so confused Link to post Share on other sites
wildgeese Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Thanks girls.. For the replies..really appreciate it xxx I just felt that if he really loved me he would be happy to see me. He wud be happy to be around me and be physical again. We haven't seen each other in 9weeks..longest time we have been apart. How can u say u love someone and miss then but in the next breath.. Tell them basically not to come visit. I just don't understand I'm wondering now is there someone else on the scene..but like I have given him every opportunity to break up with me..even suggesting we take a break but he doesn't want that. I know I have done wrong by breaking up with him but surely he can see that I must really love him..this is my second time trying to visit him in the last 3weeks. I'm so confused It's dangerous to be in the "if he did this, if he did that" territory. We're all different people with different reasons, and his may not be the same as yours. The only way you're going to feel less confused is by talking to him. An honest, heart-to-heart about how you both really feel and what you are wanting from this particular relationship. As for the "surely he can see that I must really love him" comment...he may not see that. If someone has a history of fleeing, it can wear the other person down. He may not trust you. He may feel like this sudden desire to see him is not out of love but more like desperation that you're losing him. He has every right to be weary. But if you really mean it and really intend to follow through on your relationship, you need to clearly communicate that and prove that you're trustworthy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cracker2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Author Share Posted October 4, 2011 Thanks wild geese. We are having a heart to heart in the morning.. Won't get a wink of sleep. I hope he gives me a chance Fingers and toes crossed ! Link to post Share on other sites
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