vhshowdown Posted May 13, 2004 Share Posted May 13, 2004 I have currently been away from my EX for about 2 months now. When we broke it off from one another, we were both kinda seeing other people. Well, she eventually tells me all my problems I have, and that her new boyfriend doesnt want her talking to me whatsoever, for me to leave her alone. OK Well I was upset, took a few weeks to get over the anger and hurt from realizing that we really aren't together anymore... Now the situation has changed. I started moving on with my life. Well, just a few weeks ago, she calls me out of the blue, and leaves a message, that she needs somthing i might have and to call me back, if i want to. Well, she proceeds to call me back 2 more times later that night, and I never called her back. Moved on, even though currently i am not dating anyone. The very next week, she calls me again, wanting something. I answer it because i did not recognize the number she called from. So she asks me if i have something, and I said I will look for it. Well we talk for about an hour or so. Well, she never calls me back to see if I have it. Well, she then calls me a week and a half later on a saturday nite, and leaves a message, real sweet like and everything. Well I never call her back. She then calls me at work on Monday. We meet at my doctor's office Monday afternoon, I give her her stuff back, we talk, we hug and then she kisses me on the neck..... Well, about a week goes by again, and she calls again wanting help with her rent. That she gets paid back in 2 days if i could help her out. I eventually say ok, and do it. Meet her at her work, we talk and she offers to pay me back after she gets off work Friday, and we can go out and have drinks. Well, something changes, so she meets me at my house with her roommate to pay me back, saying she has to work late so we cant go out... We all talk for awhile, and I notice she is wearing the necklace "TAKEN" that she used to wear when we were together, but act like I never saw it. I dont know if her and her boyfriend are broken up, never asked!! Then she leaves to go to work. So, that night I call up my best friend and we go out to some clubs, i have too many to drink cause now I am thinking about my EX again, and considering getting back together, or try to... Stay out till 6am drunk as a skunk... Well, i get home and she had left a message at 2am in the morning.... I call her back on Sunday, and we talk for a while... Monday, I go see her at her work, unannounced, and she acted like "oh hi" no big deal! I eventually have dinner there, and she ate with me while working... As I am ready to leave, she insists that I wait till she gets back so she can give me a hug..... And as I am leaving she says I need to come over and have a drink or 2 at her house, and I say sure sometime!! What does ANYONE make of all this? What do i do? Yes, I still have strong feelings for her, but she has yet to come out and say lets try again or anything to the sort. Is she just calling me to get stuff from me, or using that as an excuse to see me? I am so confused now, and I have those feelings again, like when we broke up 2 months ago!! I have called and gone to her work, so I am showing I have interest, but I am not getting hurt again Please, anyone have any advice, I would greatly appreciate it. THANKX!! Link to post Share on other sites
skellis Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 I think this girl is playing around with your feelings. Sorry to say it! I think you should move on! She may just want to see how far you will go to get her back! Then again if you want to be with her again, you should come out and say it and see what happens, then the ball's in her hands, then you will know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vhshowdown Posted May 20, 2004 Author Share Posted May 20, 2004 I dont know if I want to be with her again now. It is a very confusing time for me right now, and I have those miserable break up feelings again. But she called me last nite to talk. So, we had a nice conversation, and then she tells me she is thinking about leaving the country for good with this other older guy she is kinda seeing. And I am like why are you even considering something like that. Well, supposedly he is running from something, tax evasion or some sort..... Well anyways, I tell her I dont think she should go, etc... So we talk some more, and asked me if I was seeing anyone else, and I lied and told her I was starting to go out with someone else. So , she says I am happy for you, etc..... I shouldn't have done that, but I was hurting from listening to all this, I guess I wanted to put a little jealousy in her court... So, then some how the conversation turns to me saying well if you are STILL with your boyfriend, why in the world are you calling me now, especially when you said he didnt want you talking to me.... She says that she is gonna talk to anyone she pleases, as long as she doesnt sleep with them..... And me calling you, I have no intention to get back with you!!! Just seeing how you are doing.... OUCH!!! so i guess the writing is on the wall!! I was put in my place, AND IT SUCKS!!! But as hard as it may be right now to accept, I deserve better than that!! better than her!! So, it is time to move on totally. Right now, I dont want that and it is hard as hell today... LIFE SUCKS SOMETIMES!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
slimmontana Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 Don't even take her calls man! Cut her off...You don't need that in your life I know its hard but sometimes a man has got to do what a man has to do! Link to post Share on other sites
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