Author one goal Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 You are trying to hit on her, so why hide it? Just ask her out. That way you'll either quickly find out that she isn't interested, or quickly find out that she is interested. Any other option just wastes your time. It would be awkward the rest of the semester, and she will probably get creeped cause I don't even hardly know her yet. You saw what happend to me over the summer that girl in my class went nuts on me. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 Like If I told her how I think she's doing a good job and that it doesn't look like its hitting on her, but will she get the hint though I'm trying to hit on her even though it doesn't look like it to me? Yeeeeaaahhh.... I don't think you want to place any bets based on what anything looks like to you... Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 It would be awkward the rest of the semester, and she will probably get creeped cause I don't even hardly know her yet. You saw what happend to me over the summer that girl in my class went nuts on me. So basically your problem is that you're too scared of rejection to ask her out if you might have to see her again after she says no. Just ask her if she wants to go for a drink after class. You're not asking to marry her. If she says "no" she'll probably not worry about it at all, so it's only you being awkward. Link to post Share on other sites
ffw Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 Just give me her cell number, I'll make it easy for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 8, 2011 Author Share Posted October 8, 2011 WOuld it be better to wait until the end of the semester maybe? That way if she says no then it wont be as awkward in class. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 WOuld it be better to wait until the end of the semester maybe? That way if she says no then it wont be as awkward in class. See answers from last semester when you asked the same thing. Link to post Share on other sites
burningstar Posted October 8, 2011 Share Posted October 8, 2011 knowing better about her. what she like and dislike. make an eye contact, smile to her or get inside to her group of friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 8, 2011 Author Share Posted October 8, 2011 knowing better about her. what she like and dislike. make an eye contact, smile to her or get inside to her group of friend. How do I get to know her better though? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 9, 2011 Author Share Posted October 9, 2011 Frisky has a good point. I've been in this situation a few times before, and there were always douchebags and doofuses around who tried to make it a point to outdo each other in order to impress the girl, they would pay out each other in front of her, etc. Just be a top student and really know your stuff, back your own opinions in the group but also ask for others. I had group work before and there was this girl in my group. On top of contributing a lot to the group, during a presentation, I really stood out and we scored top marks for it - she went up to me afterwards and said "I'm really impressed! And never seen you in that light before!" Too bad I wasn't attracted to her. Don't text her... it's a bit weak. I'm guessing you were put in this group, even if you chose to form this group, if you do ask her out and she rejects you, it may make it awkward for her being in the group, that my opinion anyways. So, stand out academically, when you get the chance to talk to her, ask her about herself, tease her a little but don't ask her out yet. Plant the seeds first and when an opportunity arises, ask her out casually to lunch. But, if you do ask her, which I probably would do if I were me now, ask her directly in person and if she says no, shrug it off and say you'll see her in class. I'm sure she'd say no anyways and would be creeped out. I texted her and told her I thought she's doing a good job. No reply back lol. I might as well give up on trying to date at school. It never works for me and they always say no! I might as well never date. It's a losing battle and they will never say yes. I give up. Link to post Share on other sites
dispatch3d Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 Well, you know exactly how you want to go about it. You also know this is probably not the best method of attack. Why don't you try doing the opposite of what your instincts tell you to do. And I dunno if you've heard of a guy named George Kastanza, but he actually used this to great success. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 9, 2011 Author Share Posted October 9, 2011 Well, you know exactly how you want to go about it. You also know this is probably not the best method of attack. Why don't you try doing the opposite of what your instincts tell you to do. And I dunno if you've heard of a guy named George Kastanza, but he actually used this to great success. What's wrong with my "method of attack"? Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 What's wrong with my "method of attack"? Perhaps the fact that you are batting .000 and you've experienced ZERO success with your "method of attack" ? Obviously, a blind man can see what you've been doing and how your brain has programmed itself to think and act hasn't been working out for ya, has it? Nevermind the fact that your previous reply said this It never works for me and they always say no! I might as well never date. It's a losing battle and they will never say yes. Need we say more? Look, if what you've been doing hasn't worked, and it hasn't, then it's time to try a different method. In fact, sometimes doing the complete opposite would help a lot more than repeating the same doomed "method of attack" Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 One Goal, why can't you find out if she's more than just "a hot chick", and actually someone you want a relationship with? Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 Break the ice by making conversation with her. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 What's wrong with my "method of attack"? Read through your own threads. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 I don't think One Goal actually plans on paying attention or fallowing any of the advice he gets. He asks a question if he should do X, everybody says no, and he does it anyways. Then complains when it doesn't work. Link to post Share on other sites
Teknoe Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 I don't think One Goal actually plans on paying attention or fallowing any of the advice he gets. He asks a question if he should do X, everybody says no, and he does it anyways. Then complains when it doesn't work. While I agree with this, I will also say there is a little One Goal in all of us. However, with him, it's to the extreme. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 What's wrong with my "method of attack"? Nothing, as long as you're satisfied with the results you've been getting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 10, 2011 Author Share Posted October 10, 2011 I think taking her number is not a big deal for you . Ask her for a coffee date , as it is much easier for you , because both of you are working on the same project . Ask her , if she say no,then let her take her time and after that ask again , I am pretty sure that she would accept it . So u really think she would say yes? Link to post Share on other sites
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