AlexDP Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 Don't text her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 1, 2011 Author Share Posted October 1, 2011 I think you must ask this girl for an outing . Both of you are already texting each other for sometime now . So,I think it's easier for you now to ask whether she likes yo go out with you sometime . She is a friend of yours i think as I understood from your post , as she get ready to go out with you ,try to know her better ,don't hesitate to ask . This is the only way if you want to let her get into your life . Uh I've never texted her before. I've only been in the group for 3 classes! Link to post Share on other sites
counterman Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 If you started university this year or even if it's not your first, best advice I can give you is talk to as many girls as you can and ask them out! Don't focus on this one girl too much. If you obsess over it too much, it will show in your behaviour. Build some confidence by talking to other girls, you'll appear more confident in front of this girl as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 I did text her briefly about the project them other night and she responded, and she's friendly in class I think. However she also works fulltime while going to school fulltime. Link to post Share on other sites
dispatch3d Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 A 2-page thread about a girl, he's only texted her twice, hasn't stalked her once. After putting himself in a situation that he could of gotten kicked out of school, barely dodging a well-deserved restraining order from another girl, is it possible that one-goal has finally turned the corner? Nahhh. Bring on the onegoal trolls! I miss you a lot! Please come back! Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 A 2-page thread about a girl, he's only texted her twice, hasn't stalked her once. After putting himself in a situation that he could of gotten kicked out of school, barely dodging a well-deserved restraining order from another girl, is it possible that one-goal has finally turned the corner? Nahhh. Bring on the onegoal trolls! I miss you a lot! Please come back! the girls though are so much hotter at the university level though. It's a small university. I've been containing myself so far and behaving. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 What advice are you looking for, exactly? People here have given you a basic rundown of what you need to do. Use it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 One of the 18 yr old girls at my work tells me I should talk to this girl more. She was seeing a guy at work and he started texting and complaining so much she dump him. She told me dont text this girl a lot and if she doesnt reply then let it go. Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 She knows what she's talking about, then. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 6, 2011 Author Share Posted October 6, 2011 She knows what she's talking about, then. So its okay to text her a little then to see whats up? Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 No, talk to her more in class. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Then ask them out. Dude, it's not that complicated. And yet somehow, it will be... Don't focus on this one girl too much. If you obsess over it too much, it will show in your behaviour. Yeah, there's a small chance he might end up giving off some very subtle vibe or something like that... Seriously can you give me advice? Sorry, no. --------------------------------------------- New posters - did you know you can review a member's thread posting history by clicking on his screen name to bring up his profile, then click on "Statistics" and "Find all threads started by..." Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 Any advice? It's the same advice as for the last girl. Ask her out. She'll say "yes" or she'll say "no" and then you'll know if she's interested. Don't do it by text. Do it in person, since you see her often enough. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 It's the same advice as for the last girl. Ask her out. She'll say "yes" or she'll say "no" and then you'll know if she's interested. Don't do it by text. Do it in person, since you see her often enough. You know he won't. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 You know he won't. I know. He'll be back here asking us for permission to text her instead and then complaining that it hurts when she sits somewhere away from him in class. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 6, 2011 Share Posted October 6, 2011 It's the same advice as for the last girl. Ask her out. She'll say "yes" or she'll say "no" and then you'll know if she's interested. Don't do it by text. Do it in person, since you see her often enough. Here is the correct advice. Take it or leave it, but don't ask a dozen more times. If you are interested in a girl, you should try to get to know her by talking with her, and also give her a chance to know you. She might like you and she might not. Asking her out is fine. Then the ball is in her court. If she DOES NOT WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU AND SAYS ''NO," then you must respect that she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU THAT WAY and move on. Remember, it is NORMAL for a person to behave nicely and in a friendly manner towards you. This is socially acceptable behavior. JUST BECAUSE SHE DOES NOT ACT LIKE YOU REPULSE HER DOES NOT MEAN THAT SHE "LIKES" YOU. Without trying many other approaches which is perceived as HARASSING and STALKERISH by other people, even if you don't see it that way. If you are interested in being anything other than a creepy guy, you are going to have to accept and learn these things. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 Is it okay to text her and tell her how she's been doing a really good job with the group project and helping out? Link to post Share on other sites
Cracker Jack Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Don't text her at all. Why are you constantly trying to find reasons to text her? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 He wants to be in contact with her but he's scared to do it in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 He wants to be in contact with her but he's scared to do it in person. I only get to talk to her in class which I do in our group, but I cant tell her my feelings and that around others lol. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 I only get to talk to her in class which I do in our group, but I cant tell her my feelings and that around others lol. Feelings? You shouldn't have any feelings yet. Next time you see her invite her to do something with you. If you start texting a girl before you ask her out, she'll most likely get the idea that you just want to be friends. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 He'll be back here asking us for permission to text her instead Is it okay to text her and tell her how she's been doing a really good job with the group project and helping out? No, it's not okay. You may not text her. Just call her and ask her out for a drink. (You're going go text her, aren't you?) Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 Like If I told her how I think she's doing a good job and that it doesn't look like its hitting on her, but will she get the hint though I'm trying to hit on her even though it doesn't look like it to me? Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 You are trying to hit on her, so why hide it? Just ask her out. That way you'll either quickly find out that she isn't interested, or quickly find out that she is interested. Any other option just wastes your time. Link to post Share on other sites
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