AutumnB Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Hey all. Been reading on here for a while and even commented a time or two. I now find myself in the position to solicit some advice. I've been divorced for a long time and have been in and out of the dating game. Last break up was two years ago. Tried long distance and online dating with very limited success. That may have little to do with the issue at hand. Just a little background. Couple of weeks ago, I ran into a high-school friend whom I've been lightly keeping in touch with on FB. I thought he was married all this time, but it turns out he is single. We talked, reminisced, laughed and flirted. I wrote to him with some info he asked for the next day, and because it is his birthday soon, I left my cell and as casually as possible said to call me and I'd take him out for a birthday drink. He wrote back and said a drink would be lovely. That week we commented back and forth, but didn't really talk. He then wrote to me saying he had misplaced my number and could I please resend it. So I wrote back with it, but as of yet, no phone call or text. There has been communication, but only VIA comments/ messages. Am I missing a cue here? Is this guy just taking his time or is he just not interested and doesnt want to hurt me? I thought we were getting too old for all the games. We both have grown kids. And just out of curiosity to the guys and for my own personal reference, do you like doing the pursuing? The last thing I want to do is turn this guy off before he even has a chance to get turned on. Would appreciate any advice. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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