Livelovelearn Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Hey Everyone, I was sitting here thinking and I realized that I forgot how to be in a long term relationship. It was about almost 4 years ago when I met my first love and we fell quickly for eachother .For the most part the relationship was wonderful. I imagined us getting married. We dated for three years in total and in the last year we had problems as he was going through life changes with school, work and family and so he cheated on me and got into another relationship. He was back and forth with wanting to be with me. Now it took me a while but i let him go but he has since returned every 3-5 months to, i guess,see how im doing. I still have love for him but not in love and sometimes i do wish i was with him but know that that'll never happen. Accepted. I have dated another guy for almost a year but i was never that into him, and i also had a fwb. Both were lovely guys but i did not develop any attachments but we still talk... Now im wondering where do I go from here. I am almost done university and I feel happy with other aspects of my life except for dating. I miss the long term relationship however i do not how to go about getting into one anymore and how to make it last since im scared after years down the road they will no longer love me anymore..So i was wondering if anyone had any similar experiences and advice theyd like to share Link to post Share on other sites
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