Jump to content

Around what age do the awkward men become more desirable?


somedude81

Recommended Posts

OnyxSnowfall
Sex is one of the world's most powerful drugs and honestly, sex is the glue that enables civilization to survive. How do I explain sex to someone who has never had it? (not directing this to you).

 

Think of the power and extension of the big bang, but much tighter. This is what life is all about.

 

Sex... or rather, over-reproduction... is also likely going to abrogate human life.

 

I'm all for the virtual, touchable sex models you mentioned in some other thread... not because I would partake in them... but perhaps because many men WOULD no longer bother with women :lmao:

 

While I do think there would be plenty that still would (really the only ones worth spending one's time and personal life with anyway), it would perhaps subdue reproduction. Perhaps. If it was life-life enough ;) ...

 

One can hope!

Link to post
Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight
real men don't marry.

 

Wait, I know who you are. You're that dude that was a teenager just out of high school, who was trolling the forum.

 

Forget his name, it'll come to me in a minute. Wait...Wayne Brady...is that you?

 

I'm sure it is. This is a classic Wayne Brady statement. So have you branched beyond pure contempt of women and into pure misogyny?

 

Either way, I don't care who you are. You are a ridiculous human being.

Link to post
Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall
Wait, I know who you are. You're that dude that was a teenager just out of high school, who was trolling the forum.

 

Forget his name, it'll come to me in a minute. Wait...Wayne Brady...is that you?

 

I'm sure it is. This is a classic Wayne Brady statement. So have you branched beyond pure contempt of women and into pure misogyny?

 

Either way, I don't care who you are. You are a ridiculous human being.

 

I think Ely really is a teenager (or a fresh adult). He at least has the emotional cognition of one... a raging one at that (I'm wondering if he's felt immense pressure to live up to a chauvinistic, detached, ******* of a father). I don't know, so many things could be behind Ely... it was fun to ponder awhile ago, for a few minutes anyway.

Link to post
Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight
True. Not going to lie. The world's capital is generated and moved by the men you call geeks. Yet, Cristiano Ronaldo, Pique, and many others are very rich because of their bodies. They'd still be banging many women without the money, the fame and the social status.

 

One of the most wonderful continuances of the human species is that nearly every woman is attracted to the warrior. The man who stormed Rome was as sexually successful as Jesus Christ was in creating a religion. Most of the guys who aren't geeks, don't have the brains of Mr. Hawkings, but have the looks or the tendencies to display the same warrior-like behavior of the man who stormed the gates of Rome are highly sexual(and not with their hands).

 

Think of contributing to society and to the advancement of mankind later, in decades to come. Concentrate on getting laid and splashing that tremendous youthful vigor instead of spending most of it on inventions, ideas, and technologies that will enrich the life of many women and many men, but that are also capable of leaving you a social monk and a sexual Buddha( as tesla was).

 

If you say that I should do this, shouldn't I work on both?

 

What I mean by that is, work on my body, work on my social anxiety and self esteem issues, work on my approaching anxiety. At the same time, work on building a career so that I can marry, start a family, and have kids (one of my biggest dreams is becoming a father.)

 

I know, I know...you don't want to be a father. You'd rather be banging 19 year olds in your 40's and 50's. All I gotta say to that is, good luck.

 

I have different plans for my future, and they don't revolve around my sex drive. I want sex, don't get me wrong, but I also want to make something of myself.

Link to post
Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight
Huh? I'm what? I think that only the strong survived, thousands of years ago. Is my name Darwin? Seriously, adding deluded and paranoid to the list is not going to make the panties drop faster.

 

WayneBrady was a poster who was banned after a thousand or so posts of:

 

- Women don't like sex as much as men

- Women have periods to punish men

- Real men don't marry

- Prostitution is better than marriage

- Women don't like oral, because they hate men

- Women hate men [insert a variety of reasons here]

 

I was here, under a different name, back in January 2011, and witnessed all of his incredibly sexist posts, and all the furor that followed, mostly involving women calling him a chauvinist pig. :lmao:

Link to post
Share on other sites

I have seen the ''dark side'' of manhood, the facet of masculinity that the church, women, and our parents don't want us to visit because all it takes to break free from the chains of paternity/marriage/slavery to the system is one trip.

Yeah... those "cultured" and "sophisticated" ancient societies conquered other nations, enslaved people, put slaves and later people who had different religious viewpoints in the Collosseium with lions... crucified many... put women and children under subjugation.... kept people who weren't born into privilege and wealth segragated into caste systems....

 

Life was so much better back then when everyone knew his place....

 

The slaves would do the real work while we "real men" would go to the bath houses or employ our "courtesans" and f**k our lives away...

Edited by Floridaman
Link to post
Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight
A man of many talents can reach his goals quickly. A hundred years ago, a man was born in India. He had no access to formal education but by reading a math book made for kids he learned math and evolved to become one of the world's greatest heads. google it if you're interested in his life's story.

 

You're not that particularly adept at attracting or seducing women. And if you want a wife and children, you better attract that wife with your looks or your charm or your charisma because if you do it through your money, you are going to be massively hatched by the family law court.

 

Finally, a post from you that I agree with?! I must be slipping (or you must be!)

 

Look, I looked at two pics, one taken today, and one taken 2-3 months ago. Today's pic, I looked much thinner in the face (this wasn't the pic on my profile, if you saw that one, because I had a bad angle that made my face look fat.) I have already lost 7 pounds, cut out junk food, and cut down the soda.

 

I know I need to lose weight and gain muscles. I'd like to become athletic. I'd like to learn a sport. I used to be pretty good at basketball, although I'm out of practice (and out of shape.) I'd like to learn how to play that again.

 

I am not looking for a gold digger. The last thing I want is to attract women because of my money. I seriously WANT to become social, make friends, and get a girlfriend based upon my social skills. Like I've said before, I have anxiety...but I'm working at it, and trying to live with the panic attacks.

 

We just have two different minds. Yours is smooth and without anxiety, mine is not. I could become like you, but I wouldn't do it to have lots and lots of sex...I'd do it to have sex with one girlfriend. I am relationship minded, so sue me!

 

I genuinely feel bad for you, EP. You may feel bad for me, but I also feel bad for you. You have an incredibly distorted view of women and relationships...despite also having high intelligence. I can see that in your posts.

 

It must have taken something really bad to make someone so smart into someone who hurts other people, out of the basic needs of his own selfishness.

Link to post
Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall
heh, do you know of the first environment for the birth of technology? war. Men and women are multiplying like cockroaches. In times of great need great men think of solutions. Do we need space? Yes. Is there space in this star system? Habitable? No. What to do , what to do?! create the technology to transform the solar system's planets into habitable globes. See? Desperation can be the cause of advancement.

 

Of course, "necessity is the mother of invention", yada yada, yes. There are certainly advanced technologies... even if humans are capable of coming up with a way to stabilize and inhabit another planet or create a life-sustaining "globe/square/whatever"--- BEFORE this one dies or ceases to be capable of sustaining us ---- what happens when that one is damaged and trashed --- are humans going to treat it with more care or eventually take it for granted? Do you think people will be able just miraculously keep ****ting out globes to live on? What about maintaining and repairing? What about PREVENTING things before there are PROBLEMS to deal with? Besides... I wonder if human life could even go on indefinitely, considering the universes properties (of course, all that we still don't know)

 

But generally speaking, wars and diseases tend to "restore balance"... however, even beyond over-reproduction... people are being kept alive by technology/medications when they would otherwise be dead (even when it's against their will, often because their quality of life IS horrible... it's not about quantity, I agree) --- which brings up the DWDA --- which I am all for implementing in more states.

 

You're saying that I, by partaking in such, would do the female gender a great favor. Please, wipe my flowing tears away. I cannot bear the thought of you not approving of my words or actions!

 

Precisely. *dabs at Ely's cheeks with a red polka-dotted cloth napkin*. Some of us are just meant to be lost causes, don't take it too harshly.

Edited by OnyxSnowfall
Link to post
Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall

 

He originated new painting techniques. Materials that were being tested were endowed by the Master with the longevity to last many hundreds of years.

 

What do you think of the concept of "Nothing is new under the sun"?

 

Are we going to see a man rise from an unknown location to pull men into the stars? Yes. We're wanderlust by design. My ancestors had the opportunity to stay home to fck their wives but many of them built a ship and transversed the oceans never to be seen. They were aware of the risks. Their journeys would most likely end in disaster. With smiles on their sun-burned lips they said farewell to their wives and never were they seen again.

 

Okay... but venturing out into EARTH (and we cannot even live in all places that exist within Earth [besides obvious locations like the CORE and around it and even within the sea... there are barren, barren lands and lands with climate that humans cannot reasonably survive in over the long-term), is quite different than out into SPACE... humans have been venturing out into space already. I am not claiming it isn't possible for humans to ever come upon / create another inhabitable "planet/area" -- I am merely stating that, based on how the majority of humans already seem to behave... they may not allow other ones the necessary time to explore, develop, and achieve such a thing.

 

There still needed to be a relatively safe place from where your (and others) ancestors were being brought up in, in order for them to GO out and explore and expand...

 

The planet is overcrowded. We need to move to other planets or we'll have to stop breeding. What do you think is more viable? As for planets being ruined. Well, if the technology to terraform a planet is available, then it's entirely likely to have the means to repair a planet in need of attention.

 

It's a nice thought, but I wonder how realistic it is............ sketchy logic....

 

Human life is trifled with disese and limitations but the most powerful of diseases is aging in itself. Scientists discovered the gene responsible for aging. Renowned geneticists make a stake at mankind's capacity to manipulate the gene responsible for aging, making it impossible for mankind to die of old age.

 

Death completes (and begins) a life cycle. Aging naturally sees this through. What is the name of this "gene" that is solely responsible for aging?

 

I'll try not to. I can't promise anything. I'll probably be in anguish over what you said as a 18 year old woman from the Midwest is stroking my dick with her lips, but I'll survive, I think.

 

Well as long as it's not her teeth, you should survive.

 

Although I'd recommend several services for a few years to come... you're going to need a lot of wound lickings, but I think you'll come to terms with everything soon enough too. Good licks Ely :bunny:

Link to post
Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall

 

The Popes during the Renaissance used a significant amount of their time to fck prostitutes and impregnate women. The Borgia family was a sociopath agglomeration of freaks; the Patriarch of the family, Rodrigo Borgia(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pope_Alexander_VI) was a womanizer in his youth, a hearty stable customer to courtesans in his later years, and a daily presence in the offices of his doctors due to the venereal diseases he contracted from his attempts to save the sinner's soul, no doubt.

 

The Popes and Da Vinci, now that you mention it, were and are all nephilims ... cursed to be wandering demons, without a physical form... probably tormenting humans and envying their eternal lives...

 

I think I'm a "monster" that Enki made at Eridu though.

 

(Sumerian stories are pretty fascinating...)

 

I do think religion, in general, is awfully corrupt... and has been for some time...

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author

Oh God this thread has gone so far off topic. The past three pages could all be deleted.

Link to post
Share on other sites
You're insinuating that paganism was the culprit for the violence practiced by many cultures prior to Constantine I officially making Christianity the empire's religion? Please, Constantine himself was a convict pagan until his dying breath.

 

Christianity destroyed much of the knowledge and discoveries made until the conception of Christianity. Holy wars were fought by men whom to a much lesser degree were victims of the propaganda of the church and they killed and raped many women and children and sold the survivors into slavery. Thousands of young women were burned in the stake by the men who tried to get frisky with them but were refused. entire lives torn to the ground as these 'holy' men used the power of the church to kill the women who rejected them.

 

The Popes during the Renaissance used a significant amount of their time to fck prostitutes and impregnate women. The Borgia family was a sociopath agglomeration of freaks; the Patriarch of the family, Rodrigo Borgia(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pope_Alexander_VI) was a womanizer in his youth, a hearty stable customer to courtesans in his later years, and a daily presence in the offices of his doctors due to the venereal diseases he contracted from his attempts to save the sinner's soul, no doubt.

 

His favorite son, a very good-looking young man, killed a Prince of only 18 years old because he was younger, more good-looking and loved by his people. He attacked the young prince's land, promised to send help if they would pay tribute to him, which they did, but instead of upholding his phony promise he killed them all.

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cesare_Borgia

 

This guy was the inspiration for the book '' The Prince,'' a mandatory book for any aspiring politician.

 

Wanna talk about Cesare's sister? A woman nationally famous for her beauty and candor? Hm, I wonder how true she was to the virtues eschewed by the socio-political entity that the church is when she was having an incestuous relationship with her brother? Where was the morality of that religion in all of this? Why was a child, fruit of incest, allowed to be born?

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucrezia_Borgia

 

 

Christianity was the political dagger that Jesus Christ took from under his sleeve to legitimatize his claim to the throne of the Jews. The birth date of the Jesus Christ figurehead was based on the Egyptian god Horus and most of what was written in the bible and created was stolen from much older religions. The god damn old testament is an almost exact copy of the religious books of the Ancient Sumerian race.

 

Christianity destroyed much of Europe's blood, was responsible for massive hating and killings among the various sectors of Christianity, indebted Europe to forever be in a strained relationship with the middle-east(gotta thank the crusades), enriched itself immensely while most of the population died of hunger and disease; hogged on all the wisdom of the ancients. Killed the men and women who disagreed with them.

 

 

Probably raped a lot of women and men. Stole the foundation myth and the first man and woman myth from previous religions. Controlled the sexuality of mankind for too long, and I could stay a thousand years crapping all over Christianity but I'm tired and I want to go to sleep. Gimme back my good old paganism!

 

In your screed, you didn't see I said ANCIENT world.

I didn't end the ancient world at the 4th Century, so ancient IMO includes Medeval time frame as well.

As we have to include every ill committed by Christianity, need also to include the murderous Communists and modern regimes.

 

As for the papal abuses, where chuch offices were sold amidst rampant corruption, such abuses never happened in Greece or Rome?

 

Then go back to Atlantis or your fantasy Greek and Roman worlds where a lad like you can f**k as much as you want.

Being born in a lower-class family, you wouldn't likely be able to change your status in life (codified in law and cultural practice) and would likely end up one of those indentured sex slaves ("courtesans")working in the houses of ill repute for women AND men (you'd have no choice). You'd get as much tail as you want.:p

 

Doesn't make any difference, though. You're so hung-up on your own belief that a particular religion "ruined everything."

 

You don't have a "balanced" view where you take the good and bad from a particular movement or society. Because Christianity "destroyed" Europe, it's all bad, to you.

Because of abuses in ancient Rome and Greek, those societal contributions should be discarded?

Edited by Floridaman
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • 1 month later...
somedude you know we have similliar problems with women my advice to you would be to get some male friends..

 

Not just to help you get women but it takes your mind off things for awhile when your hangign out with your buddies on the weekend shooting the ****,,

 

I think it helps your self worth when you have people who do care about you..

 

Plus thye always tell me about the grass is greender synrome and how being in a relationship and married isnt always pleasant:laugh:

That's capital advice, 1980.

 

SomeDude,

Try to form more friendships with men.

Why do I say become friends with more men?

 

Simple: if you do activities with them, like bowling, going to sports games, singles groups, etc., one of your male friends may bring a sister, a female friend or acquaintance, female cousin visiting for the weekend from a nearby city or female business colleague that might be good for you to date.

 

Have said this in other threads (think it was that massive porn thread that got deleted), but it may help other guys:

 

Went to dinner one night after work with some work colleagues.

Noticed this brunette sitting next to a female business colleague, so went up to her and struck-up a conversation.

 

Next thing you know, had talked her into meeting me for a dinner date the next weekend.

That led to a 3 month relationship.

 

Of course, like most women in my late 20s, she later dumped me, but still, I got a lot of kissing (and a little more:)) out of that, so was good I summoned-up the courage to ask her out.

 

SomeDude,

Get out of your "comfortable" chair (or shell) and take some initiative in talking with women you meet. During that initial conversation, if it feels like she enjoys talking with you, press her for a date, a simple date like over coffee or lunch.

It could pay dividends....

Link to post
Share on other sites

To answer the original question.

 

Women will start to look past the men who are the biggest, flashiest with the most "game" etc when they reach emotional maturity. After that point compatibility, stability, and just enough hotness to melt their butter is all they need.

 

There is a point between say 25 and 35 where most people attain emotional maturity. At that point one is able to stand back from their emotional reactions and be more logical about things. Before this point all someone needs to be to get a date is, hot, popular, or have enough money.

 

i.e. Emotionally immature men would have found Paris Hilton attractive, rich, and popular. Therefore she could screw whoever she wanted. Emotioanlly mature men might still find her attractive, but know such women are trouble.

 

i.e. Emotionally immature women will throw themselves at say.... popular musicians "rock stars" and such. Emotionally mature women know that while such men have their charms, they are not a good choice at all.

 

Understand.

 

 

 

All of that said Sumdude needs to get some real psychiatric help and get over his depression. Emotionally mature 35 year old single mothers don't need depressed, boring, dead weight in their lives.

Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Author

All of that said Sumdude needs to get some real psychiatric help and get over his depression. Emotionally mature 35 year old single mothers don't need depressed, boring, dead weight in their lives.

I was appreciating your post until I got to this part.

 

Now I'll just say.

 

**** you.

 

BTW, I actually typed in four asterisks just in case a mod might take issue.

Edited by somedude81
Link to post
Share on other sites
×
×
  • Create New...