SC Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 I'm still in the same situation I have been in for the last 3 1/2 days. I have kept to no contact since tuesday, but I feel my head is clear now and can talk to her rationally. I just want to get in touch so she knows I really want to talk to her. But last night my friends suggested that now I have a clear head I should text her to see if she will listen to what I have to say. I text at around half 6 pm, its quater past 2 in the afternoon now the next day and still no response. I feel like I completly buggered any chance I had of getting in touch with her. She must know now that I want to talk, so why even if she doesn't does she not reply. If she cares for me the way she says she does, she should at least tell me its never going to work. Leaving me in the balance is tearing me apart. I have to see her tomorrow in work anyway, so I really badly want to arrange something. What does this tell me, is it all bad or is there still hope? If you don't know what I'm referring to, look in the otehr threads regarding 'How do I get her back?' by me. Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 i am a lady and i feel that if my man sends important 'issues' via sms, he's testing the waters and avoiding a proper confrontation. im afraid u did 'bugger up' to some extend. and another side to it, im hoping hard for your sake that the message didnt get through to her..... anyways, if the thing u want to talk to her about is off importance, give her a call and meet up.... talking face to face is easier than texting back and forth. give her one more day and if you want to clear the air, call her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SC Posted May 14, 2004 Author Share Posted May 14, 2004 I haven't asked for anything in the text apart from wanting to meet her. So really I've not pushed any issues yet, just the fact that I feel that I have a clear head and that I feel ok to discuss things over logically and not get upset. Thats all I said, and that I hope she responds soon. So what u reckon to that? Bearing in mind I have to see her Saturday anyway, I feel it would be a bit much if I rang her just now. I thought a text would be more subtle. Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 whew! i thought u poured ur heart out via texting... well, since you are seeing her saturday, that's not too far away, so just go out and talk it out. u can ask her politely if she received your message, ask her why she didnt reply, that will clear some stress off you from stress. best of luck bro. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SC Posted May 14, 2004 Author Share Posted May 14, 2004 Originally posted by LILUIL whew! i thought u poured ur heart out via texting... well, since you are seeing her saturday, that's not too far away, so just go out and talk it out. u can ask her politely if she received your message, ask her why she didnt reply, that will clear some stress off you from stress. best of luck bro. I did kinda pour my heart out on the monday night, but thats cos I was really upset, so she knows that if I see her its to try to persuade her to get back with me. I prob shouldn't have done it but I didn't know what else to do, this is the first time I've ever been in this situation. Mayb you could also help me if you have time to read my other thread, which asks for a female perspective. But I basically wrote out what I want to say to her when I see her. Could you have a read of it, and give any possible feedback as I'd really appreciate it. Cheers. Link to post Share on other sites
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