first date insecurities

[AfriendAllie]

I have recently joined a dating group on the net. I will post a photo within the next 2 days or so.

 

I hope to find some dates and probably the girl of my dreams. I am however real leery about it .

 

If I do go on a date, I am somewhat leery because I have no car and I have YET TO GO ON ONE.

 

I consider myself a nice guy, I figure that women are not into those.

 

I am definitely confused and lost.

 

I am enamored by female feet and percieved as weird for it.

[WWDDFD]

Originally posted by AfriendAllie

I have recently joined a dating group on the net. I will post a photo within the next 2 days or so.

 

I hope to find some dates and probably the girl of my dreams. I am however real leery about it .

 

If I do go on a date, I am somewhat leery because I have no car and I have YET TO GO ON ONE.

 

I consider myself a nice guy, I figure that women are not into those.

 

I am definitely confused and lost.

 

I am enamored by female feet and percieved as weird for it.

 

 

Forget it. Women hate nice guys; they think we're desperate for some reason.

 

They love a**h***s who treat them like ****. Just read some of the posts on this forum.

 

"Like, my boyfriend stabbed me with a knife BUT I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM!!! I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!!!"

 

Good grief.

[moimeme]

Forget it. Women hate nice guys; they think we're desperate for some reason.

 

They love a**h***s who treat them like ****. Just read some of the posts on this forum.

 

This is an old, OLD, tired myth. WWDDFD, you haven't been a 'nice guy', you have been a doormat. You have allowed this person to treat you like dirt and you keep going back for more. This is what a lot of fellows think is being 'nice' but it is not; it is thinking so little of yourself that you'll allow someone to walk all over you and then resent them for doing it.

 

These are the fellows who say that women love jerks. They are wrong.