ThsAmericanLife Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 (edited) God, Bless America:love: ok, but for the record... I just googled 'blumpkin' and I'll have to pass on that one.... Emphasize 'vice versa' on the previous... if he can't reciprocate, then I'm not a happy camper... Edited October 3, 2011 by ThsAmericanLife Link to post Share on other sites
Fondue Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Don't jump into something you're not comfortable with, that's for sure. But with that said, as a man, there's absolutely nothing like releasing yourself into a lady's mouth and having her simply take it in (and hopefully enjoy it). I can't say there is a more gratifying feeling. It's also sexy as hell. Women who bless their man with this act, please know that we're all so god damn grateful. You rock. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 This concerns me too. One year it was blumpkins and no I did not to that one. One year it was peeing on each other. He gets obsessive about wanting it and will bring it up all the time until he finally moves on. I have done a few things that I had wanted to do but most of the things he wants repulse me. Is this just a man/woman thing? I guess I just want regular s*x with good old intimacy and am not so concerned doing new or kinky things all the time. Blumpkins? Like the other poster, I don't want to know. This is the problem with the internet. It normalizes things that just aren't normal. It really sounds like your guy spends too much time on porn. Unfortunetly, this is a huge issues today with guys. The fact that you mention how obsessive he gets about wanting it is not a good sign. A partner should never pressure another to do something they don't want to. If he keepds in insisting on something or even keeps talking about it even after you made it clear you weren't intersted, that's a problem. Only do things you want to do. And no, this is not a man/woman thing. Not all guys want the same thing. Obviously from this thread some people are into it and some aren't. But all you really need to know is what you feel comfortable with. It's also sexy as hell. Women who bless their man with this act, please know that we're all so god damn grateful. You rock. To show her your gratefullness buy her a new pair of expensive shoes the next day. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GG3 Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 Don't jump into something you're not comfortable with, that's for sure. But with that said, as a man, there's absolutely nothing like releasing yourself into a lady's mouth and having her simply take it in (and hopefully enjoy it). I can't say there is a more gratifying feeling. It's also sexy as hell. Women who bless their man with this act, please know that we're all so god damn grateful. You rock. This response is why I am still with this guy. Because I think a lot of guys feel like this and he's just hoping a little too much for something that I happen to not want to do. Just want to say again, I never said I've done all the things he's asked. I just get to listen to him ask and push for certain things from time to time and it annoys me. And there have been some things that were my idea and a little kinky that we have done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GG3 Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 Blumpkins? Like the other poster, I don't want to know. This is the problem with the internet. It normalizes things that just aren't normal. It really sounds like your guy spends too much time on porn. Unfortunetly, this is a huge issues today with guys. I think so too. I hate porn for this reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Sanman Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I am a dude...so no. However, I know a few women who have. Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I think so too. I hate porn for this reason. I had to look blumpkins up and yeah that's on the kinky side, no great harm done, but if you can't stand doing it then just refuse to do it. As for cum in your throut/mouth, its not a porn thing! Porn did not invent this nor did it invent deep throat, its just made more guys realise what they were missing out on Try it once and if you can't stand doing it then just don't force yourself in future, unless pleasing him overides your distaste for the cum. Let him know and if he carries on, then tough for him. He can make up his mind as to what is more important in his life. For me though, Cypress and I would never marry. She might be a great girl and all, but an uninhibited sex life is pretty important part of of a LTR for me these days. Ew. Cum is not allowed in my mouth under any circumstances. Just the thought of it makes me nauseous. I don't like having a dick in my mouth either. If a guy cares about me, he's cool with it. If he doesn't care about me, he tries to pressure me into doing it. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 You've pleasantly surprised me with that statement of yours . You don't like to shave your legs but you're up to a good job with your throat. That's praise-worthy. So you're not interested in a man giving you oral sex? Boring. eating a woman out is a lot of fun and enjoyable to both the man and the woman. You should try it out. The taste of a man's sperm and it's consistency are connected to his eating habits and his lifestyle. By drinking a lot of water, and I mean a lot of water, the sperm will be thin and won't come out in great torrents. Healthy food and fruits can sweeten the sperm. One of my friends is a great admirer of fruit. He's always eating fruit and yogurts, milk, and other dairy stuff. His gf told her girlfriends that his sperm tastes like pineapple. Maybe the men you date could try it out? All the cum I've tasted has been salty and slimy. And smelled of Clorox. Not something I want to drink. If it tasted like pineapple I might change my mind though. Link to post Share on other sites
ThsAmericanLife Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 EP... man, one post and you blow it all out of proportion... I live in Upstate NY. It's friggin cold up here. There are many months I'd prefer not to get out of my underoos, much less shave my legs! As any guy can attest to, it is not fun shaving when all your hair is on end. So, yea, when I moved up here, I wasn't exactly religious about it... and ya know what? none of my men ever complained. In fact... both of my major SO's got teary eyed with me at one point and said "You make me want to be a better man" Hmmm. maybe it was all that deep throat. one thing we will agree on (I CAN't F-ING BELIEVE WE ARE AGREEING ON ANYTHING) is that diet and exercise absolutely changes how a man (or woman) tastes. Which is why I'll never date a smoker. There is nothing more disgusting than the taste of a smoker. Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 No, because I'm not gay. However, I would be open to doing it on this end. Link to post Share on other sites
eatNrM Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 ok, but for the record... I just googled 'blumpkin' and I'll have to pass on that one.... Emphasize 'vice versa' on the previous... if he can't reciprocate, then I'm not a happy camper... haha! I can't say I know many people who enjoy giving those. As far as the vice versa, that sounds perfectly fine with me:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
Cypress25 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 So you're not interested in a man giving you oral sex? Boring. eating a woman out is a lot of fun and enjoyable to both the man and the woman. You should try it out. I have tried it. It was fine, but I can live without it. Not one of my favorite things. And we all know that guys only give head to get head, so if they're not getting it, they don't mind not giving it. It's a fair exchange. For me though, Cypress and I would never marry. My entire fantasy world just came crashing down. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Hmmm. On my personal scale, which I'm sure many will disagree with, swallowing semen is not kinky at all but normal, fairly vanilla and sometimes just a good way to end the day. Blumpkins, however, are just gross. I'm happy to provide the same sensation by giving a BJ while stimulating the prostate myself or with a toy, but I'm just not going to get into the toilet scenario. Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus One Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 All the cum I've tasted has been salty and slimy. And smelled of Clorox. Not something I want to drink. Thanks for that information. Now I don't have to taste it myself anymore to find out. Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Blumpkins? I don't even want to know what that is. Link to post Share on other sites
OliveOyl Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Blumpkins? I don't even want to know what that is. I googled it and I'm sorry I did. I don't get why people need such strange stuff to get off. Link to post Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Well, you were asking if anyone else feels this way but... Swallowing cum is yummy --- I personally find it highly arousing... it also adds an increase in the depth of intimacy for me --- My boyfriend's cum almost always tastes good to me. Cum is erotic... and I agree with those who stated that swallowing while orally pleasuring a man is akin to completing a connection (I admit I'm a little nasty and like to fold and roll my tongue around the cum, sloshing it along each taste-bud repeatedly to simply just savor it before swallowing too LOL). Sometimes he will cum while deeper in my throat and I won't taste him much but --- just feeling him spasm and knowing he's cumming inside of me (in any orifice) is ... well... to each their own I guess? Link to post Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I googled it and I'm sorry I did. I don't get why people need such strange stuff to get off. Lol... supposedly it makes the orgasm more intense. If my boyfriend was more kinkier, I would try it with him Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Well, you were asking if anyone else feels this way but... Swallowing cum is yummy --- I personally find it highly arousing... it also adds an increase in the depth of intimacy for me --- My boyfriend's cum almost always tastes good to me. Cum is erotic... and I agree with those who stated that swallowing while orally pleasuring a man is akin to completing a connection (I admit I'm a little nasty and like to fold and roll my tongue around the cum, sloshing it along each taste-bud repeatedly to simply just savor it before swallowing too LOL). Sometimes he will cum while deeper in my throat and I won't taste him much but --- just feeling him spasm and knowing he's cumming inside of me (in any orifice) is ... well... to each their own I guess? Will you marry me? Link to post Share on other sites
camper15935 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I definitely agree with the above sentiment of not doing anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and pressured. It's good to expand your sexual horizons from time to time...but that is a different from being pushed into something you find repugnant. It would concern me if someone I was in bed with wanted me to do things I hated doing and was uncomfortable with, not caring how I felt about it. Pressuring and being selfish is not the hallmark of a good lover or a thoughtful partner. Nudging boundaries is a good thing I think, forcing them is another. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Lol... supposedly it makes the orgasm more intense. If my boyfriend was more kinkier, I would try it with him Maybe you can get him to do a Blumpland Steamer; wouldn't that be great fun for all? Yuck. Sorry, OP. I just don't see why anyone would stay with a partner who pesters someone for long periods of time for things that you find abhorrent. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 I googled it and I'm sorry I did. I don't get why people need such strange stuff to get off. They don't need it. They been looking at porn for so many years that they've seeked out grosser and grosser things like a drug addict to excited them when the regular stuff doesn't do it anymore. I'm not saying swallowing cum is gross. To each their own on that. But I think a lot of what guys want to do in the bedroom links back to what they increasingly watch through porn. And certain things have become normalized that have nothing to do with female pleasure and really is all about male pleasure first and only. Sure, a guy is going to want you to enjoy things you do in the bedroom. But it's not really out of the kindness of his heart so much as his own selfish desire go garner pleasure from the things he likes first. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
LadyWriter Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Exactly. I wouldn't be surprised if her arms were a bit more toned the next day. Ha! I've had that happen... As for cum in your throut/mouth, its not a porn thing! Porn did not invent this nor did it invent deep throat, its just made more guys realise what they were missing out on Exactly! Porn may have given way to some really kinky stuff (i.e. blumpkin, blumkins, blumpkining...whatever it's called) but I don't believe it invented the practice of swallowing cum. I mean, really! I know women who have a big problem with porn, but personally I've never seen it as a big deal. I would be concerned if someone was watching the really, really kinky stuff, but to me it's just like having a little something "extra"...if that makes sense. And we all know that guys only give head to get head, so if they're not getting it, they don't mind not giving it. I beg to differ. Are you speaking for the general population? I've had a couple guys who absolutely would NOT be satisfied unless they went down on me, whether I reciprocated or not. They thoroughly enjoyed doing it because they liked it, not because they were in a "I'll do it to you if you do it to me" mindset. I personally find it highly arousing... it also adds an increase in the depth of intimacy for me --- I second that! It's a lot like having him cum inside you during sex. There's something about that specific moment that makes you feel connected on every level. Plus knowing he likes it turns me on Link to post Share on other sites
Cypress25 Posted October 4, 2011 Share Posted October 4, 2011 Are you speaking for the general population? No, I'm only speaking from my personal experience. I've had a couple guys who absolutely would NOT be satisfied unless they went down on me, whether I reciprocated or not. They thoroughly enjoyed doing it because they liked it, not because they were in a "I'll do it to you if you do it to me" mindset. Well, most guys claim that they enjoy giving oral, it makes them feel good to please their girl, blah, blah, blah. I don't know if I really believe it though. How many of them would want to continue giving the girl oral, knowing that she would never return the favor? Eventually they would start complaining about how unfair it is. I solve that problem by making it fair from the get-go. I've had a few weak protests ("no, I really do enjoy going down on a girl, I swear, I don't expect anything in return..." etc), but over time, they just stop doing it. And I don't ask for it. Somewhere in the back of their mind, they think I'll eventually come around and return the favor. Once they realize that's not going to happen, they seem to forget how much they "enjoy" going down on me. Fine with me, then neither of us feels obligated to the other. Link to post Share on other sites
eatNrM Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Well, you were asking if anyone else feels this way but... Swallowing cum is yummy --- I personally find it highly arousing... it also adds an increase in the depth of intimacy for me --- My boyfriend's cum almost always tastes good to me. Cum is erotic... and I agree with those who stated that swallowing while orally pleasuring a man is akin to completing a connection (I admit I'm a little nasty and like to fold and roll my tongue around the cum, sloshing it along each taste-bud repeatedly to simply just savor it before swallowing too LOL). Sometimes he will cum while deeper in my throat and I won't taste him much but --- just feeling him spasm and knowing he's cumming inside of me (in any orifice) is ... well... to each their own I guess? Ohh..Once again, what a champ:love: Link to post Share on other sites
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