Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I really like one of my good friends. He's kind, I love his sense of humor, and I pretty much find everything about him endearing. But he has a girlfriend, so I have been very careful to not cross that boundary. Recently, I realized that my feelings for him were becoming too strong. So now I feel I have to make a decision. Either I let go and move on, or I let him know how I feel and see where that goes. Do you think it would be in poor taste to confess to someone who is already attached? I am not looking to have him cheat on his girlfriend; I just want closure, whether it be rejection or acceptance. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Does he live with the gf? How serious is it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 No, he doesn't live with his girlfriend, but they live near each other. They've been together for three years. What I've heard from mutual friends is that he wasn't a great boyfriend in the beginning; he would prioritize his friends over her. But recently he has matured and gotten better at involving her more/being more considerate. I will admit that hearing about how he may not be as into his current relationship anymore has given me hope, as horrible as that sounds. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 No, he doesn't live with his girlfriend, but they live near each other. They've been together for three years. What I've heard from mutual friends is that he wasn't a great boyfriend in the beginning; he would prioritize his friends over her. But recently he has matured and gotten better at involving her more/being more considerate. I will admit that hearing about how he may not be as into his current relationship anymore has given me hope, as horrible as that sounds. Just go for it then its his fault for giving you hope. Does he find you sexy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Author Share Posted October 5, 2011 Lol, I don't think it's him who's giving me hope. It's really just my wishful thinking and certain things I've heard and observed. But anyway, to answer your question, I've no idea. He enjoys my company, that's all I'm sure about. Of course, that could be a completely platonic thing on his part, who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 is his current gf pretty? Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 You already have closure. The closure is that you cant have him. So all you need to do now is fade away. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted October 10, 2011 Share Posted October 10, 2011 if he wants you, he will find a way, meanwhile get out more, the situation you're in is not good Link to post Share on other sites
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