wildfirefighter Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 I've been with a great guy for 3 years now, and for the most part, we're happy. But lately, I have been wondering what it would be like with someone else. I don't always feel entirely appreciated. We both work demanding jobs and he's not really romantic. We have never celebrated an anniversary though I've mentioned how much it would mean to me. We live in a tiny town with not much going on, so date nights are seldom. Our jobs as wildland firefighters monopolize our summers so vacations are rare as well. I guess I see what all my friends get with little romantic getaways (though we can't afford much), flowers and just a simple gesture that lets them know their man loves them. I hear the words, but sometimes don't see them, if that makes sense. Our sex life is good, well.. his is better than mine and I've just been sad the last 3 months. I love him but I don't know if the issues I am having are just me hitting a slump in life or if I need to move on. He is faithful, honest and I've never had trust issues with him, so why do I sometimes wonder who else is out there? Just human nature? Link to post Share on other sites
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