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WoW... I so want to break NC


wilsonx

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It's amazing how one thing, whether large or small, can have such an effect on us. I can prepare for anything my ex may do to get my attention, but when she does it, it still affects me so much.

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Wasn't it Nietzsche who suggested pity is beneath contempt?

 

Okay, how about this. What if it was one of your buddies that pulled this prank on you? You'd be pissed, but you'd get over it, right? Think of it like that. She pranked you. It happens. You're big enough to see the big picture.

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Wilson. You did good. Even though I suggested setting a boundary. I think your decision was right for you. Keep your head up, brother!

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I set the boundary 4 months ago via text message when she was being friendly after I kicked her out.

 

She broke it so that we could cut the final financial tie. I responded

 

"Send me an address to mail the check to. The plates you gave as a gift. After I send you the check, I've moved on and you will stop contacting me. We have no further business to discuss"

 

A week later she sent another email.

 

Hey, I do not want to keep bothering you and I fully intend to leave you alone once I receive the money owed however it's been a week since you claimed to have sent it out so I just want to make sure it's on its way. Then you won't have to hear from me ever again if you don't want.

 

I never responded to this.

 

And that was it until a few weeks ago. So actually the boundary was set, shes just crashing it and not just poking at it, but mack truck bulldozing it

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