smudge21 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 It's amazing how one thing, whether large or small, can have such an effect on us. I can prepare for anything my ex may do to get my attention, but when she does it, it still affects me so much. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Wasn't it Nietzsche who suggested pity is beneath contempt? Okay, how about this. What if it was one of your buddies that pulled this prank on you? You'd be pissed, but you'd get over it, right? Think of it like that. She pranked you. It happens. You're big enough to see the big picture. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 Wilson. You did good. Even though I suggested setting a boundary. I think your decision was right for you. Keep your head up, brother! Link to post Share on other sites
Author wilsonx Posted October 15, 2011 Author Share Posted October 15, 2011 I set the boundary 4 months ago via text message when she was being friendly after I kicked her out. She broke it so that we could cut the final financial tie. I responded "Send me an address to mail the check to. The plates you gave as a gift. After I send you the check, I've moved on and you will stop contacting me. We have no further business to discuss" A week later she sent another email. Hey, I do not want to keep bothering you and I fully intend to leave you alone once I receive the money owed however it's been a week since you claimed to have sent it out so I just want to make sure it's on its way. Then you won't have to hear from me ever again if you don't want. I never responded to this. And that was it until a few weeks ago. So actually the boundary was set, shes just crashing it and not just poking at it, but mack truck bulldozing it Link to post Share on other sites
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