digger Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 She hit me with D papers after 15 yrs and I'm beside myself. I never saw it coming nor thot she was the type--ive tried to stay away but everytime we meet i get all teary eyed--while she stays stone cold stagnant--i.e. this is the thing to do. How do you girls see it? Putting up a good front is she? Am i making it worse by showing my emotions when she claims she has none and has cried the last tear? I know what they say--but i just cant control it and the D has to be done in 40 days due to state law. Any comments? Link to post Share on other sites
Shush Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 Wow. It is really nice to hear a man so sensitive and caring about his marriage. My husband left me 2 weeks ago to "Think about what he wants." There has not yet been any talk of divorce (but none of coming home either). Your situation sounds similar to mine. When we talk, he is cold and keeps the conversations short and to the point (i.e. can you pay this bill?). I too am going out of my mind. I so want him back. I am willing to work hard and go to counseling to reconcile the marriage, but he isn't sure if he wants to work on our issues or just walk away. We have been together for 10 years (married for 5) and I really thought that I knew him better than this. Ugh! Link to post Share on other sites
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