Men: Is oral sex a requirement?

[Disenchantedly Yours]

TheBigQuestion

 

Again, I only illustrate how some men have the expectation that bjs are an important part of a successful relationship. Just as some women have expectations on men that include paying for dinner. I don't care that you make your girlfriends pay for themselves. I don't have any desire to change that. That's you're right and you will find women that are happy with that. My point is to illustrate that other people's ways do not have to be yours and vice versa. And wanting to instigate a movement where things are done in a matter *you* think is "best", is just wrong.

 

This funny word "expectation" is huge in the grand scheme of it all. What expectations both men and women hold about the other gender and what that expectation means for men and women and their own personal happiness in a relationship. This is something that should be defined between individual couples. Don't like giving bjs? Then find a man that is okay with that. Don't want to pay for dates and want to go dutch with women? Then find a woman that is okay with that. There is someone for everyone..most of the time. A man's desire for a bjs is not inherently evil. A woman's desire to be treated a certain traditional way is not inherently evil.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Why does it even matter to you? No man stood up for you and other women, big deal. Get over it. It's just words on a screen, move on. Take a chill pill, relax, have a root beer.

 

I stated why it matters to me. I said it right here:

 

It's not a matter of me thinking it's a "devine" right. It's a matter of both men and women treating each other better and calling other people out for the other gender just as much as their own. You want to turn any kind of defending a man could do for a woman into some silly cliche that you think should embarres both men and women, using "white knight" as a way to shame men not to stand up for what they know is right or wrong with how men AND women are talked about.

 

Jesus Christ, you must be a whole lotta fun to be around. Send my regards to your boyfriend, the man deserves a Nobel Peace Prize for putting up with you.

 

Don't worry you're pretty little head about it Lars.

[TheBigQuestion]

TheBigQuestion

 

Again, I only illustrate how some men have the expectation that bjs are an important part of a successful relationship. Just as some women have expectations on men that include paying for dinner. I don't care that you make your girlfriends pay for themselves. I don't have any desire to change that. That's you're right and you will find women that are happy with that. My point is to illustrate that other people's ways do not have to be yours and vice versa. And wanting to instigate a movement where things are done in a matter *you* think is "best", is just wrong.

 

This funny word "expectation" is huge in the grand scheme of it all. What expectations both men and women hold about the other gender and what that expectation means for men and women and their own personal happiness in a relationship. This is something that should be defined between individual couples. Don't like giving bjs? Then find a man that is okay with that. Don't want to pay for dates and want to go dutch with women? Then find a woman that is okay with that. There is someone for everyone..most of the time. A man's desire for a bjs is not inherently evil. A woman's desire to be treated a certain traditional way is not inherently evil.

 

I never once said that I make girls pay for themselves all the time in relationships. I never advocated that others do that either. You continuously fail to understand the distinction that I've made explicit MULTIPLE times: the difference between a committed relationship and when the dating is still casual. You continuously put words in my mouth.

 

I fail to see how I'm "wrong" for wanting to share ideas on how I feel certain aspects of society can be improved. It's not like I'm the only person on Earth who holds these beliefs. You tell me it's wrong for me to share my beliefs and show others how to sidestep a social convention that they also might find irritating or flat out stupid. I don't see why it is wrong. This is what people do all the time. It's something that plays a significant role in the evolution of society.

[azsinglegal]

well at the very least a musty odor. and an infection need not be in the equation.

 

it is what it is. why do you think women douche?

 

It shouldn't smell "musty" the word you're looking for is "musky". And it douching is TERRIBLE for you. If your woman does this - she has a problem. It will make it much worse.

 

Most of the time diet has a direct effect on a woman's scent. Smoking, drinking, any of that will change the scent/taste as well.

 

Depending on the time of month it can be stronger smelling then others. But anything like fish is very bad - that's an infection for sure.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

In A Rut

Who is Lars?

 

Figure it out.

 

If I saw a woman getting beaten up by a group of six men, there would be no way in a month of Sunday's that I'd intervene to prevent it.

 

yeah, because saying something on a message board about something you admitted was "narrowminded" is the same as stepping into a group of six men that was beating up a woman.

 

Plenty of women here make derogatry remarks about Short men and I don't see any women sticking up for us Hobbits (not that we need defence), if a Short man loses his rag he is reminded that women are allowed preferences, so like it or lump it.

 

Yes, I remember a recent thread about this subject and I stood up for short men.

 

My point is exactly this, for men and women to start seeing each gender as human beings and speaking up for things they feel are wrong when it comes to both men and women. Instead of men just sticking up for men and women sticking up for women.