should i be worried about my finance' cheating with her EX?

[tryan3280]

 

 

Am I jumping to conclusions? My girlfriend and I have been together over 2 years and have been engaged for almost a year now. She was recently diagonoiced with kidney failure & has been going through a lot. I read an email sent to her ex, stating "I Love you, Roses are red, Violets are blue, I want to tell you how much I need you!" SHOULD I BE WORRIED? HELP PLEASE........

[setsail]

How did you come across this e-mail is the first question. If you were snooping around then you came across the information the wrong way anyway. However, I do believe that you should at the very least question your SO on this. Regardless of whether she is dealing with a sickness or not is not an excuse to loving e-mails to your ex when you are in love with someone else. Even moreso, you have to ask how long have this type of communication between she and her ex taken place. I realize she may be ill, however, her sickness is not a license to lead a double life of any sort or to mislead you or her ex.