digger Posted May 15, 2004 Share Posted May 15, 2004 i KNOW i'M WRITING ALOT AND ITS GOOD THERAPY--and maybe i'm in denial but here goes: Our divorce is final in 40 days--i never saw it coming--i thot we'd be together forever. I still love her more than life itself. I did some wrong things--and she let her imagination run away with herself. She rarely--i should say never contacts me--but stops by when i ask her to or stops on the street--but starts in with the "i dont love you anymores" etc when it wasnt this way 6 months ago. (no there is no one else) So how many of you ladies have ever carried anything out just to put a 'jolt' in him--to make a point--to scare the living s*** out of him? Is that possible or wishful thinking as to what this is all about. Link to post Share on other sites
ready2moveon26 Posted May 15, 2004 Share Posted May 15, 2004 I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but she's not worth worrying over. You may or may not get back together someday, but it will never be the same. My husband and I split up for 4 months a few years ago and got back together. We are now going through a divorce because I could never let myself fully trust him, and why should I. If he walked out on his family once, who's to say he won't do it again. She sounds like a controlling person and she has control over you just as my husband had over me until just recently...(like last week). I know you probably do love her and I do love my husband, but it is time to start thinking about YOU! Do you want to be controlled and feel unloved for the rest of your life. It is time to move on and try to forget about her. I know it will be hard, because it is for me. I love my husband very much, but I love the person he used to be, not the person he is now. People change, you have to decide if you even want to know the person she is now, let alone love her. Think about it, you deserve to be loved as much as you love the person you are with! Link to post Share on other sites
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