jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 So, it is 2 a.m. on Sunday. It is starting the 9th day since we had the fight...and the 7th day since she told me "she really really needed some time away from me." If I make it all the way through today without contacting her, it will be 3 consecutive days...with no contact. I want to work this out so badly with her...how much time does she need? I am crying...I am sad...I miss her. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 Sadly, there is no set time in their minds when this sort of thing happens. No one ever says, "I'll come back in 11 days." It's just something that either happens or doesn't. And I don't think you're crazy. I've been there. Horrible feeling. You have my sympathy. In time, you'll begin to move on and live yourself like you're actually living, not waiting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Author Share Posted May 16, 2004 I just wish I could call her, and apologize..and make things ok again. I mean, I had her on the phone, and on instant messenger on Wednesday by her choice...I could have made my plea then...but I didn't...and now I am regretting it... Link to post Share on other sites
Twilite Man Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 Guess what. It took a month and that calling to the universe and it worked. She called me this morning and asked me for to go to dinner with her. Turned out we went for lunch, after lunch my daughter called and asked what I was doing and I told her that I was with Michelle. my girlfriend. Anyhow in the past if my kids called I nevered told them who I was with... because of that, she asked me to pull over the car and she kissed me for about 5 mins. We went to supper and talked to a friend about her ex husband and was informed that he would never trust her again and she then realized after that month that I am the one for her. I have some things to clean up with my ex but wow.... She told me after the meeting with my collegue that I am the one and she wants me. GO FIGURE ! so it does work... Link to post Share on other sites
sinkerswim Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 You are not crazy... You miss her and that is understandable..its soo hard being away from the one you love the most. Hang in. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Author Share Posted May 16, 2004 Well...I just woke up from a dream where I (somehow) overheard her asking her fiance's mother (who she can't stand) how she could be a better fiance. Really made me sad when I woke up. Then, I came online, and she was on AOL..and had been for 6 minutes...if I had gotten on when I first woke up...instead of lying there feeling depressed...we would have gone on at the same time...weird too..but happens often... But I am sad...today is day 9 since the arguement, and the 3rd consecutive day with no contact... Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 At least it won't get much worse than it is. Dreaming of an ex is never easy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Author Share Posted May 16, 2004 the last time we had a fight...like this....I bugged the hell out of her until she finally talked to me... I wonder if I should have done that this time.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Author Share Posted May 16, 2004 IF she ever thinks about me? Link to post Share on other sites
Author jerryinva Posted May 16, 2004 Author Share Posted May 16, 2004 I have tried to sleep on and off...and every dream she is in.... Link to post Share on other sites
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