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[abhi]

ilost my brother in a motorbike accident 2 years ago..got married around 18 months ago...my husband god knows from where he got it in his head that he wants to buy a motorbike..i told him i am scared begged him not to..he is being very adamant and wants to buy at any cost..he went and got the bike license also today...he is acting very obsessed..finally i told him i will leave him forever if he buys it..he still dosen't care..what to do???the moment this motorbike topic come out i burst out crying..i haven't slept properly..i am getting all bad dreams..i am crying everytime i think about it or the thought of leaving him or the thought of him meeting with a accident..Is that materialstic thing..that bike more important that a relationship..i can't live with the tension everytime he takes the bike and goes out..i dunno what to do??? my husband is adventurous and i never stop him from doing anything..skydiving bungee jumping paragliding and many more..how should i convince him..???should i leave him if he buys one..but life is not that simple...i can't live without him...i can't live with the tension everytime he is out in the streets on his bike..what to dooooo?????