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Eternal Sunshine

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Me and bf attempted it the other day and failed. We were at a public pool and started making out and then decided to ummm finish in a less public place, hence the shower.

 

However, we just couldn't find a position for him to ummm put it in. He tried crouching and the angle didn't really work. There wasn't much space and we are both tall and non-skinny people. In the end we started laughing and finished manually.

 

Is it even possible for us? Ideas?

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Me and bf attempted it the other day and failed. We were at a public pool and started making out and then decided to ummm finish in a less public place, hence the shower.

 

However, we just couldn't find a position for him to ummm put it in. He tried crouching and the angle didn't really work. There wasn't much space and we are both tall and non-skinny people. In the end we started laughing and finished manually.

 

Is it even possible for us? Ideas?

 

Yeah. With you standing hands against the wall and him fcking you from behind. I've done it many times, and it works out well. :) You could also try screwing on the floor with him on top but it's more awkward.

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Common position (warning: adult content)

 

There are a few others from the Kama Sutra. Read up.

 

Eh, that looks super awkward. That position always seems hot in theory but in my experience it never quite works in practice.

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I guess it depends on the people involved. It's never been an issue for me, though my exW was too heavy for me to handle that way for any length of time. Past dating partners, no problem.

 

I found shower sex to be quite natural and intimate. Something about the warm water cascading down was very peaceful and erotic at the same time.

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Try calisthenics...

 

Some people just aren't very flexible with their body.

Flexibility is helpful for the woman, as strength is for the man, regarding the position I illustrated. Generally it starts as a leg lift by the woman, with the man supporting her lifted leg, then followed by insertion with her perhaps guiding his penis, then he lifts her off the ground, supporting her buttocks, and she wraps her legs around him. This kind of activity, clothed, was a part of my sex play back when I was a virgin. I found the intimacy very satisfying and arousing. I found that the taller the lady was, the easier it was, though one partner was quite petite, around 4'11" and 105lbs, so she was easy to pick up.

 

OP, spend some time in the shower and experiment. Practice makes proficient :)

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Flexibility is helpful for the woman, as strength is for the man, regarding the position I illustrated. Generally it starts as a leg lift by the woman, with the man supporting her lifted leg, then followed by insertion with her perhaps guiding his penis, then he lifts her off the ground, supporting her buttocks, and she wraps her legs around him. This kind of activity, clothed, was a part of my sex play back when I was a virgin. I found the intimacy very satisfying and arousing. I found that the taller the lady was, the easier it was, though one partner was quite petite, around 4'11" and 105lbs, so she was easy to pick up.

 

OP, spend some time in the shower and experiment. Practice makes proficient :)

 

My ears my ears! :lmao: J/K

 

Perhaps learning how to curve the pelvis and becoming more flexible will benefit OP, should this be something that becomes a major requirement for her and her BF (having sex in tiny public showers..).

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IIRC the OP's stats correctly, she's about the size and weight of the lady who took my virginity many years ago and who was the first person I got to 'consummate' the standing position with. As a 37y/o mother of two, she did it pretty effortlessly, probably far better than I. Flexibility does help. The showers I'm used to are about 1 meter square, perhaps larger than the one she and BF were in. Then again, I'm larger :D

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Heh, thanks guys :o

 

I was thinking we are just too fat for shower sex. I will try TC's and carhill's idea, although carhill's looks quite hard to do.

 

Sidenote: I meant to post this in sex section :bunny:

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I guess it depends on the people involved. It's never been an issue for me, though my exW was too heavy for me to handle that way for any length of time. Past dating partners, no problem.

 

I found shower sex to be quite natural and intimate. Something about the warm water cascading down was very peaceful and erotic at the same time.

 

try slipping in the shower and dislocating your knee like i did about 6 weeks ago.

 

shower sex loses all appeal, seems dangerous ;).

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Some floor surfaces are more dangerous and slippery when wet, no doubt. Sorry to hear about the knee. Ouch. My shower happens to have a textured mosaic porcelain floor so it's pretty grippy. So far, no incidents. I'll keep that in mind though, for unfamiliar locations. When aroused, sometimes common sense departs. Thanks.

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yeah, mine is ancient porcelain tiles, very slick. if i were smart i woulda looked into something to put some texture on them, but i'm not ;).

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I suggest that if you try acrobatic sex positions in a slippery, tiled environment, you wear protective headgear, such as bicycle, football or equestrian helmets.

 

Adds kink, too.

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IME, floor is critical. I learned about some new designs when the terrazzo company which did our flooring tried out a new epoxy aggregate mixture of finely crushed sea stone. It's a great non-skid surface and works well in a wet environment. The textured mosaic tile I have is pretty good in this regard but I'm really impressed with the aggregate. Now that I've done a few showers, I'm more comfortable working with different materials and trying different things. Fun :)

 

I would agree that standard porcelain/ceramic large surface tile and other surfaces like slate/granite, etc would probably be too slippery, though I do recall such an episode in a hotel room shower with an admittedly petite partner. I would suggest to anyone to do some shower 'play' first and, if finding one's feet slipping around, then try something else.

 

Hey, that just gave me an idea for some BDSM shower gear.... :cool:

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