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My real Name is XXXXXX, I am 26 and I have been having a rough lonely life. Like many of you, I am alone. I never had a physical relationship and and given a slightest chance, I choke. I feel I am cursed, every woman I felt attraction to never takes the time to get to know me, they judge me by my cover. When I say women I mean all kinds of women and I have been spurned by them all. Of course I go for women i am attracted to, now I mean attraction by decent physique and good personality. Now the Physical aspect varies so I can't give you a scale. Personality, I expect something that isn't a stump, boring.

I'm getting off course here. The thing is people, women never give me a chance, or get to know me. They go by on what little information they can gather of me and run. It feels they look for any excuse not to give me a chance. Me, I have acted with confidence, I exercise, I have hobbies, l am an actor singer, people have told me I have a beautiful voice. When it comes down to it they still make me feel I'm not worth it. Women, my whole life let me down, and they say after words "You'll find some one" they've been saying that to me for 12 years. I do so many different things, I go out, I do what ever I can. Its not enough, it's never enough, one said that I have to earn it, HOW?! What else can I do, The only thing I haven't done was be a horrible person, and I can't do that.

 

I even just try to make friends with them and they still treat me the same. I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for a real girlfriend who I can be comfortable with, I am a very good person, I joke around and can be childish but when I'm not being playful I'm very mature. I do every thing that a hear a woman asks and it's not good enough. I'm not good enough. I be my self, nope no good. I be a number of something else not good enough still. They just do the same thing, they give me little to no chance and run away. None of them ever look back, none of them think I how feel, none of them care how I feel.

Please help...

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Maybe you're coming across as too eager, too clingy? For me, that's a huge turn-off when I'm getting to know someone, especially if I'm not head over heels for him in the first place.

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