BoyinWonder Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 It's been almost 3 months since the split, a month since we have actually talked to one another. There has not been any tell tale signs that she is done completely with me. I feel more that this is her needing space away from us for a little while to sort out what she wants. That is one of the statements she made, that she didn't know what she wants. Told me no time in the near future is she going to change her mind. Almost as if she was trying to convince herself more than me. Now I know that after that long apart (granted we did have an almost 4 year relationship) that there is the possibility of there being someone else. What are the odds though she jumped right into dating someone else?? She couldn't even tell me what I was to her so she really hasn't sorted anything out in her head. I know if I were to start seeing somone I would have a hard time. I'm sure she'd like to try but can't imagine it would be easy. Especially when what we had was good and true love. My brother works with her and has not heard anything about her dating someone else. It's the kind of place where word gets around quick. He has said she has been working a lot, way more than usual, so her plate must be full. So if there is someone else he definetly isn't getting too much attention. She has also been really lazy at times at work and has not all too many friends at work anymore. I feel bad because I feel as if she is trying to hide a lot at work, put on a good front but hurting inside. Eventually she has to break down, I can't imagine she hates me or never wants to speak to me again. Just confuses me as to why she isn't calling. I guess just trying to see what life is like without me for a bit, and sooner or later she will miss what we had. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 18, 2004 Share Posted May 18, 2004 What are the odds though she jumped right into dating someone else?? The odds are extremely high. She is single remember? I guess just trying to see what life is like without me for a bit, and sooner or later she will miss what we had. Stop thinking like this. This is torture. She broke up with you, and you will live your life without her. Link to post Share on other sites
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