lazler Posted May 17, 2004 Share Posted May 17, 2004 Well i have a problem with this marraige. My wife and i never divorced and neither wanted to,short story version is . she left me for another man. yet she still came to me and told me she loved me just needed her space. (mind you at the start she told me they were just friends). anyway i find a letter 2 days ago from him to her. stating she was everything to him. well she confessed she had been with him but never sexually. he said the same. Now today me and my wife took the kids to circus circus to play. well when i dropped her off she went in and guess he had her crap packed and said to make a choice . me or him. well she said she wasnt going to divorce me if thats what he was impling. so now she is still there and says she will give me a second chance to show her i can love her the way she wants to be. ( yes i pushed her away with not paying attention to her) so please dont think she left just for the other man. any way i feel like she maybe coming back cause he booted her arss.but believe me i been tring to get her back since she been gone.but now i feel like i am the fall back. should i feel this way? even if it was me that puhed her away?i mean she did tell him she wasnt going to divorce me. should i feel confused now? should i be afraid she will do it again?should i even take her back? or should i just be the one to divorce her to save her the troble of not having to? Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted May 18, 2004 Share Posted May 18, 2004 If you want to save your marriage, why not give it ONE last try? Set some ground rules - be fair but firm. Check out <URL removed> or http://www.divorcebusting.com for advice. Link to post Share on other sites
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