billyconlon Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 can someone tell me if this is flirting??my gf said to a guy on fb that she missed him.the guy also asked her if she is still in love(with me) and she wrote-"think so ya".doesnt seem so sure!!she was never with this guy before but they flirted alot before we started dating.also another one of her friends is saying stuff to her like he loves her etc and she replies by saying awwww.and finally another guy she is friends with she sends many kisses to,writing stuff like mucho besos etc.is that too much or am i over reacting??thanks.sorry for jumping in here.im not sure how to start a new thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author billyconlon Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 also must add she is mexican so maybe different culture??she does say she loves me and is going to move to where i live(uk) Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 How would she feel if the roles had been reversed? Link to post Share on other sites
Author billyconlon Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 (edited) she wouldnt care so much.she says its how they are in mexico.she also told the guy who was saying he loved her to stop writing that stuff.like her facebook and msn pictures are of us kissing.the whole thing is really confusing me Edited October 13, 2011 by billyconlon Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 And how old are you 2? You sound young and thus I'd conclude that your GF is attention seeker, so thus she keeps those guys close to her for the attention they give. Link to post Share on other sites
Author billyconlon Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 im 25 she is 24..should i dump her or what??? Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 can someone tell me if this is flirting??my gf said to a guy on fb that she missed him.the guy also asked her if she is still in love(with me) and she wrote-"think so ya". oh ya, she is trying to keep the door open with this guy. She doesn't want him to know she is sure about you so he keeps trying to zoom her. tell her, "so, you only THINK you love me? tell you what, how bout you 'think so ya' your ass out the door and go for this other guy already" Link to post Share on other sites
Author billyconlon Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 ya thats what im thinking too.but that guy is actually living in a far away country.when i confronted her she said no way was she flirting.and she keeps saying its u i want to marry.is that all bull??thanks for the concern btw Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 she wouldnt care so much. Bull she says its how they are in mexico. Bull that guy is actually living in a far away country. Err, so are you. when i confronted her she said no way was she flirting. Bull Sounds like she is not as committed as she claims. She is keeping all these guys orbiting as backup plans. That is very disrespectful to you and your relationship. She sounds very immature as well. I don't think she is ready for a committed relationship and certainly not marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 ya thats what im thinking too.but that guy is actually living in a far away country.when i confronted her she said no way was she flirting.and she keeps saying its u i want to marry.is that all bull??thanks for the concern btw she wants to marry you, but only "thinks" she loves you? you can do better than this girl. even so, people who aren't trustworthy and faithful stupidly want to get married all the time, rather than staying single so they can play their little cheating games. and she IS flirting with this guy and keeping her options open. if he didn't live in a far away country, she'd be arranging to meet him. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 If you accept her behavior as a "cultural norm" She will continue to do it with this guy and others. There is no such thing as "harmless flirting" someone always gets hurt. Her flirting will increase and she'll push the boundries until she has an affair. Why? Because you've accepted becoming a doormat and buying into her lies. There's no room in a relationship for three. You should be her one and only to receive any affection and vice versa I would tell her to continue to flirt with this guy all you want...because we're done. Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 There is no such thing as "harmless flirting" someone always gets hurt. Her flirting will increase and she'll push the boundries until she has an affair. Why? Because you've accepted becoming a doormat and buying into her lies. Good Lord! You said a mouthful!!! So true, too!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 She is obviously keeping you around until somebody with a better game comes along, which by the sound of it, she is actively searching for that guy with a better game. Run From This.... Like you are running from the stink of a 3 Burrito Dump at a Gas station bathroom... Link to post Share on other sites
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