thatone Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 (edited) There is an assumption in our discussions that we are both in this for the long haul and that is an odd sense of comfort which is very weird and unlike anything I've ever experienced. yep, i felt that way about the last gf of mine, i know exactly what you're talking about. didn't really know what to think of it at the time, but had to assume it was the way things were supposed to be. fwiw we did break up a few months later. maybe she wasn't who i thought she was. maybe i wasn't who she thought i was. ok screw that, maybe is too gentle. i ignored issues with her because that 'comfortable' feeling was so different than any other woman i had been with. she took advantage of that complete trust from me and drove me away, as she has done with other men in her past. her family was more than willing to help her do so, as they have always done in her past. so the lesson is that comfortable feeling isn't magic. i think it just comes from a match in personality/values. still gotta work hard at making it last. good luck i'm rooting for you. Edited October 23, 2011 by thatone Link to post Share on other sites
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