Author Gentlegirl Posted October 16, 2011 Author Share Posted October 16, 2011 Yes , the door is closed. Whether it was a wise thing or not to reply... some might think yes and others might think no. For me, it allowed the expression of some feelings that have been troubling me It was MY WAY of dealing with it. I'm way too old to worry about what doomsayers predict! Going NC doesn't automatically wipe out a whole relationship of 3 years. The day you bury a loved one, does not mean that you wipe out feelings and issues the moment the dirt hits the coffin. It's a process that takes a lot of time. It's different for everbody . Happy Sunday, GG Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 You're still talking about this guy and it's supposed to be over for ten months now. Yes he broke contact first but that doesn't mean it was a wise idea to break contact yourself to "tell him off." Contact is contact, emotional investment is emotional investment, keep picking at the scab and it will never heal. You tell yourself since the content of what you are communicating portrays him negatively it "doesn't count" or that it's a positive thing. It's not. This guy should not even exist for you right now. When you got his email fishing around you don't respond, you simply delete, and block that email (if you haven't blocked it before). Keep lying to yourself and see where you are in another ten months. You need help......smh Anyway GG, as we've all seen, you'll be just fine! GREAT FOR YOU! And in another 10 months, you'll be even better. Link to post Share on other sites
Barrsitter Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Wisernow - Make sure your knight in shining armor isn't just a dork in tin foil. Absolutely hilarious! Still laughing...thank you! GG - I agree with your approach. When you are possessed of your own power and you have something to say...then say it! It doesn't mean that you are being sucked in again by your xMM. It means that you are strong enough now to put forward your views. Maybe your X will learn something. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Way to go GG!! I know this had to feel good! You have done great and there is no doubt in my mind there are wonderful things ahead for you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gentlegirl Posted October 16, 2011 Author Share Posted October 16, 2011 Wisernow - Make sure your knight in shining armor isn't just a dork in tin foil. Absolutely hilarious! Still laughing...thank you! GG - I agree with your approach. When you are possessed of your own power and you have something to say...then say it! It doesn't mean that you are being sucked in again by your xMM. It means that you are strong enough now to put forward your views. Maybe your X will learn something. Lot's of dorks out there. That is just so funny. No Bar, the xmm is 69. I think it's a tad too late. GG Link to post Share on other sites
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