guitaristVLADIMIR Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 that i have the ability to not get too emotionaly envolved with someone or something as i always her stuff like its hard to move on when you were in a relationship for X amount of years.....not for me it aint or once you have sex with someone you tend to develope an emotional bond with the persson whic is the reason friends with benefits never workout... it isnt for me do you think its healthy to basicaly shut out the possibility of being too emotionally involved... i mean ive had dozens of girlfriends and there is a girl i worked with whom ive never been with outside the workplace let alone one on one outside the workplace...and she is the only one who is ripping my heart out of my chest ( cause she left) cause i feel as if shes the one for me... Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 basically what it is, is that you are the type of guy that thinks he has the upper hand in a relationship, can leave without looking back because you are a stud. but now a woman left you, and the ego isn't doing quite so well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author guitaristVLADIMIR Posted October 15, 2011 Author Share Posted October 15, 2011 well thing is i don't really view myself as a stud....esp since that girl tore out my heart... but i actually self depreciate myself a bit.. but i have lots of confidence its not my fault if i get hit on or if ladies flirt with me more then other guys.... Link to post Share on other sites
Sevenscars Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 well there ya go, ego kicking in again. learn to see it and stop the denial. you need to forget about getting involved with people whatsoever until you've realized that your emotional capacity to be intimate has improved. otherwise, you're only going to go around hurting people for your own selfish needs and using them. this heart break you feel right now, welcome to every single girl you've ever dumped. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 well thing is i don't really view myself as a stud....esp since that girl tore out my heart... but i actually self depreciate myself a bit.. but i have lots of confidence its not my fault if i get hit on or if ladies flirt with me more then other guys.... I rest my case Link to post Share on other sites
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