ManBroDude Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 (edited) I'm 24 years old and I always liked this beautiful lady that was 35 one day I approached her while she was at work and gave her my card it was unplanned and a little akward but at least we both smiled she said "Do you know how old I am?" then I asked her to call me sometime and she said "I'll think about it" Well two months later she starts texting me and after a couple of "text offs" we were having great communication I complemented her alot and I know we both really dug the conversation. I know she was comfortable texting with me because she would go into details about big events in her life She told me a couple of times we should go out and eat sometime Well after the second time she told me that I called her and we talked for 20 minutes seemed to go good some silence wasn't akward but, I asked her questions and kept the conversation flowing. I ended the conv. saying I would call her in a couple of days or maybe we should just meet up this weekend? she said yes she was free! cept for Sunday she said she had to meet up with John. I immeadiatly without thinking asked who that was I probably sounded really Jealous and lame! I am not over possesive like that but, that is how I came across I'm sure. She had told me about her female friends and I never asked about them . Anyways I called her twice this week no answers then I text asked her what she was doing tonight she responded then I ask want to meet up this weekend. no reply Well as you can tell I'm probably thinking about this too much but I am really alone and really enjoyed her text, her stories , and her asking about me. I would probably really creep her out if I called her again But, I wanted to text her and ask to talk on the phone Then say" I'm sorry I came across like that (which is my own fault) (maybe she doesn't care at this point) But I really enjoy talking and texting with you can we still communicate on that level? "(I don't have anyone to talk to who will take some interest in me like she has) Then I want to say "I don't want you to talk with me just because you feel sorry for me but, I thought we both enjoyed the conversations and maybe we could still talk ?" I know most of you if you read all this will just say move on but, even though I came across with lots of compliments and she probably just assumed I was interested sexually. I actually was looking for companionship and someone to talk with more than love or sex. should I try and call her in a few days or should I let it go? If you read this thank you so much! any suggestions on what I can say to her? I forgot to mention she always made really strong eye contact with me before I approached her maybe she didn't like my voice?/maybe she thought I was an over jealous creep?/maybe I asked too many questions?/ UPDATE: three hours after her no reply she texted me and says she has plans with a friend tomorrow (the day we were supposed to meet) she invites me to go with her and her friend tomorrow or bowling with her and John? Edited October 15, 2011 by ManBroDude forgot details Link to post Share on other sites
Author ManBroDude Posted October 15, 2011 Author Share Posted October 15, 2011 I'm not looking for a answer to all my questions just some feedback please Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteChocolate Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I skimmed your wall of text. What is your question(s)? Link to post Share on other sites
shakez07 Posted October 20, 2011 Share Posted October 20, 2011 pretend you got plan as well, said maybe next week. then just say yea hopefully we all can hang out. that's it, then give it a couple of days and it'll be normal again Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted October 20, 2011 Share Posted October 20, 2011 Sounds at this time she may prefer to keep things on the social level. Take her up on the offer to meet up! You get a chance to shine in her flock of friends or friend. Nothing wrong with being "a" part of a group and still making for a good time. Its a step in the right direction verses slamming the door entirely. Let opportunity work out Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted October 21, 2011 Share Posted October 21, 2011 She's keeping things on the social level for a reason. She could already be attached, or she's not interested, or she feels the age gap is too much. I've chatted online with young men who are looking for a 'mature' woman - some are just after sex and I get the impression they think a mature woman would be more impressed with them than a younger one, but some seem to want companionship and someone female to talk to (ideally, with the sex thrown in). If there is an age gap of more than 10 years, I find it odd. I think why don't they find someone their own age? I wonder what they want from me, really. It's confusing. In her position, I'd probably stay fairly formal and leave it at that. If I liked you, maybe I'd be a friend but keep it on the social level. A large age gap just doesn't feel right and it's hard to understand the motives of a much younger guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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