Girl Questions, Need Advice [shy guy right here]

[NBAOrlMagic0601]

Ok. Well It's me again. There's this girl I like. I really want to get to know this girl, but she's a freshman and im a sophmore. We have no classes together and she's always walking with people in the hall. I have a suspicion that she might like me. I'm not sure though.

 

She stares at me when she sees me for like 3-5 seconds. Does this mean a girl likes you when she stares at you? I don't think she has a boyfriend. She is so beautiful and nice and sweet from what I've heard.

 

I've always had girl trouble b.c I'm shy when it comes to women and talkin to girls I don't know. I can't make convo. can anyone help me out with that?

 

I've gotten alot of attention from girls this year. Which is weird b.c this is the first year in my life girls have given me attention. There's people always tellin me that this girl over here thinks im hot or whatever. So I'm a bit confused.

 

So aside from all the b.s I've written up there he's my question 1) Does her staring hint at some way she is attracted to me? 2) How can I make convo. with a girl I don't even know?

 

Thank you for yalls help.

 

 

Nick 804

[average guy]

There are different kinds of "stares" What you want to see is "the look"! It is impossible for anyone but you (the object of the stare) to tell if it is "the look" or not, but if you knees go weak, it porbably is.

 

Go up to her and talk to her - it's the only way you'll ever know for sure. If her "look" gives you weak knees, trying sneaking up from beside or behind her (nicley - not like a jerk or anything) so you don't turn to jelly before you even get close enough to her to say something.

 

Good luck

[Mr C]

My boy, if a girl is looking at you for 3-5 seconds with a totally silent, dead-pan serious face (the look of lust) or a welcoming smile, this girl MUST fancy you!! 3-5 seconds is long enough. Sexual feelings can flicker through somebody's mind in that short period of time quite easily. Even though they might deny it, women think about sex just as much as men!! No matter what goes on, sexual feelings or thoughts are always somewhere lurking in the back of the mind, whether conscious or non-conscious.

 

Sex is the fashion which never goes out of fashion! And don't you forget it!

 

Do you look at her when she's looking at you? You could try that to let her know that you like her and since you say you are shy, maybe perhaps you're hoping that she will approach you to make it easier for you? But the problem is, sadly, that it's the guy that traditionally does the dirty work, and do the approach and the breaking-of-the-ice first line of conversation.

 

If this thing is happening regularly, and nothing is going any further, you'll have to summon up your inner strength and confidence to go up and talk to this girl, because that would make her day. Well, she keeps looking at ya, yeah? However, act swiftly because this is High School, right? With all their cliques and that's where you may have so many types of people socially mingling with lots of other people and it can be intimidating and competitive.

 

What i'm saying is, if the girl's very attractive then she's probably popular and the more confident, sweet-talking big shot males could steal your thunder. And if that happens, you've missed your opportunity, because you may look good but she doesn't know your personality, meanwhile a more unattractive guy just whittles in there trying to charm her and they might become a couple. Would that make you angry, if after all this time, this sexual relationship potential turning to dust? Is it not likely that other guys will fancy her and that time may not be a luxery? Motivation and a determined edge is the key to cracking your trouble conversing with girls. You can do it, buddy, believe me.

 

 

Take grit and steel determination and throw nerves and convention out the window if you want this girl. She fancies you. You fancy her.There's the foundation already for what might be something special for you.

 

Confused about the attention from girls? Let's hope you're now showing more optimism and maybe more haste to get to High School when you found out that the eye candy is looking back at YOU! Under all that confusion, you're probably loving the attention. Who's a lucky boy, then!

 

 

Now, call me a flatterer, but the reason why there's this female attention surge is that it just might be that your looks have blossomed over the past year and if 1 beautiful girl is lusting for you without even talking to you, then this is no joke. The ball is in your court, she won't bite if you chat her up, because she might actually be too shy to come to you, because she's got a soft spot for you and some women just get intimidated by a guy's good looks, as they are generally more sensitive and in touch with their emotions like for instance, blushing. It's also that sexual feelings are becoming more developed.

 

 

Funnily enough, i can recognise with ya. Maybe that's why i replied!. I'm genuinely good-looking and pretty much out of nowhere, i experienced a sudden female interest, that was way too much and i was shocked and spooked by it. Since then, it hasn't stopped and things have changed for the better.

 

 

Tell friends or colleagues that you fancy the girl and they may give you that little push to succeed your goal.

 

Type of things to say first to the girl would be something simple like the weather, school work or get adventurous and say to her first " Did anybody tell you how gorgeous you look today?"