Am I too small?

[azsinglegal]

Those beauty standards are more fashion standards than porn standards, with the exception of fake tits... and I really think most guys don't like that.

 

I hate fake boobs... they only look good when a woman has her clothes on... How much does that suck?! Like finding out at the last minute the guys abs are spray on.

 

Either way... I don't think you should blame porn for pre-existing beauty standards. Now if you said brazilian waxes... that is a porn thing. Personally it's gross... to me it mimics pre-puberty youth. Nothing below the age of 21 is going to be able to turn me on.

 

Anyway... the point is that guys today watch tons of porn. It changes they way they see themselves in terms of penis size and body shape. Jeeze I see interracial porn is pretty popular, but I tried to watch it one time and its incredibly racist. Makes it almost unwatchable. I think the guys who produce it and watch it think of it in the same terms as bestiality.

 

Porn has twitsted people's minds in so many ways. I was friends with a guy who worked from home and all he thought about was sex, he jerked off all day long. He watched so much porn it was impossible for him to see a woman as anything other then a sex object. I tried for months to be his friend. We hung out, did stuff...but he always just tried to get me into bed. He never understood WHY I wasn't there to just have sex with him.

 

In the end, we couldn't be friends anymore...his drive to just nail me was too strong it took over his entire thinking. He never talked about women as dating, or relationships, just about sex. It's like he's so warped from it. He was friends with my BF at the time and kept asking him to tell me to have sex with him. Asking if he could "borrow me" for a night.

 

Now...that being said. I must admit, I like to watch porn now and again. I masturbate to it. But, it's very rare. I'm sure my man watches it now and again, which is fine.

 

But watching it all the time, being addicted to it. THAT is a problem. I've dated a few guys that preferred to jerk off to porn then have sex with me. I knew things were finished because I'd never be with a man long term who was like that.

 

I got into a HUGE fight with a BF years ago cuz I was outside doing yardwork and when I came in he was jerking off. He was furious with me cuz he claimed I knew what he was doing and I was supposed to stay outside so he could finish. That ended things for me.

 

Porn is just like anything else. In moderation, it's fine. It serves a purpose. When it rules your life, that's a problem.

Edited October 27, 2011 by azsinglegal

[Untouchable_Fire]

I'll see him tonight thru the weekend. But...I dunno if he'll want me to measure his junk.

This is the best size estimate I can give you (from a picture he sent me)...you know the full size barbasol can? (it's shaving cream). His penis can hide the whole thing behind it.

 

I can crush the sun between two fingers. Like most things in life this is mostly a matter of perspective.

 

Beside that.... what kind of doucher sends out a picture of his dick? Is this how you met the guy? I've always thought emailing dick pics didn't work... but you have proven me wrong madame!

 

Porn has twitsted people's minds in so many ways. I was friends with a guy who worked from home and all he thought about was sex, he jerked off all day long. He watched so much porn it was impossible for him to see a woman as anything other then a sex object. I tried for months to be his friend. We hung out, did stuff...but he always just tried to get me into bed. He never understood WHY I wasn't there to just have sex with him.

In the end, we couldn't be friends anymore...his drive to just nail me was too strong it took over his entire thinking. He never talked about women as dating, or relationships, just about sex. It's like he's so warped from it. He was friends with my BF at the time and kept asking him to tell me to have sex with him. Asking if he could "borrow me" for a night.

Now...that being said. I must admit, I like to watch porn now and again. I masturbate to it. But, it's very rare. I'm sure my man watches it now and again, which is fine.

But watching it all the time, being addicted to it. THAT is a problem. I've dated a few guys that preferred to jerk off to porn then have sex with me. I knew things were finished because I'd never be with a man long term who was like that.

I got into a HUGE fight with a BF years ago cuz I was outside doing yardwork and when I came in he was jerking off. He was furious with me cuz he claimed I knew what he was doing and I was supposed to stay outside so he could finish. That ended things for me.

Porn is just like anything else. In moderation, it's fine. It serves a purpose. When it rules your life, that's a problem.

 

Ok... guy #1 was just a wierdo with no social skills. Those guys have always been around, and with 5% or more of todays male population being autistic that issue is only going to increase

 

The ex BF story made me laugh. Masturbation is such a private act.

[azsinglegal]

I can crush the sun between two fingers. Like most things in life this is mostly a matter of perspective.

 

Beside that.... what kind of doucher sends out a picture of his dick? Is this how you met the guy? I've always thought emailing dick pics didn't work... but you have proven me wrong madame!

 

Ok... guy #1 was just a wierdo with no social skills. Those guys have always been around, and with 5% or more of todays male population being autistic that issue is only going to increase

 

The ex BF story made me laugh. Masturbation is such a private act.

 

No, it's not how we met...LOL And we had been sleeping together by the time I got the picture. I asked for it - BTW, I was traveling for work.

 

Imagine my surprise when I walked in on that and then got in trouble for not staying outside?!? WTMF.

[ChessPieceFace]

Porn has twitsted people's minds in so many ways. I was friends with a guy who worked from home and all he thought about was sex, he jerked off all day long. He watched so much porn it was impossible for him to see a woman as anything other then a sex object. I tried for months to be his friend. We hung out, did stuff...but he always just tried to get me into bed. He never understood WHY I wasn't there to just have sex with him.

 

I watch porn all the time and I'm not like that. If anything, it has served to detach sex and women for me. I don't care as much about women providing sex, since I get the stimulation I need through porn.

 

You're blaming someone's piggish behavior on porn because you have no comprehension of what porn is or does, or of male needs. Porn has bad effects but the above isn't one of them. It's like the exact opposite.

[Imageiko]

I watch porn all the time and I'm not like that. If anything, it has served to detach sex and women for me. I don't care as much about women providing sex, since I get the stimulation I need through porn.

 

You're blaming someone's piggish behavior on porn because you have no comprehension of what porn is or does, or of male needs. Porn has bad effects but the above isn't one of them. It's like the exact opposite.

 

I agree with this. If anything it detracts the interest in real women as the porn fantasy is so readily available and takes no work.

[azsinglegal]

I agree with this. If anything it detracts the interest in real women as the porn fantasy is so readily available and takes no work.

 

I comprehend it just fine. Did you not see where I've ended 2 relationships because men chose porn and jerking off over me and sex?

 

Oh...I get it...believe me. This isn't my first time at the rodeo.

[MikeyK]

all extra topics aside, I am fine right?

 

5.3 inch erect and 4.5-4.7 in girth in the middle and 5 at base.

[MikeyK]

It sounds really cute.

 

 

no seriously.

[MikeyK]

You sure?

 

Yerr dinky.

 

 

what can I do? People here said I was fine

[somedude81]

what can I do? People here said I was fine

You could stop trolling for one.

 

At first you were believable. But after all the posts. That isn't the case anymore.

[oaks]

all extra topics aside, I am fine right?

 

5.3 inch erect and 4.5-4.7 in girth in the middle and 5 at base.

 

Put it away. Nobody wants to see your penis.

[AHardDaysNight]

Stop obsessing over this, man.

[loversquarrel]

Would you turn Kiera Knightly (spelling?) down for having small boobs? I think not.

[Symetrical-Siren]

It's about the skill of the one that owns the gun.

 

Personally, I've had men of varying size. I prefer them to be no smaller than 4 inches fully erect, yet no longer than 6. I get maximum orgasms, with all pleasure and no pain. Anything above 6 inches, and we're limited in positions unless I am willing to deal with pain or discomfort (I'd rather not).

 

Don't be concerned with your size. Focus on skills. Kama Sutra, Cunnilingus, and Tantra <---- if you want the ULTIMATE sexual experience, learn how to exchange energy. You won't be sorry.

 

Good luck.

[ChessPieceFace]

I comprehend it just fine. Did you not see where I've ended 2 relationships because men chose porn and jerking off over me and sex?

 

Oh...I get it...believe me. This isn't my first time at the rodeo.

 

Except you blamed men's piggish, lustful behavior toward you on porn. When in fact, the opposite is almost always what happens. That's where you failed. If certain men are piggish, it's because they are piggish. That's how they were raised.

 

You are also inventing blame toward men because you, inherently, are a man-hater. That's the other problem. Speculation? Yeah, but it is pretty obvious from everything you type on here.

 

I don't expect you to know everything about men. The problem is when you pretend to, or lie to yourself that you do. You were wrong on that point. Be big enough to admit it and move on. You've had 2 guys so far point out your misconception on this issue. Also, stop with the man hating and blaming of men for all your problems. For the sake of your own happiness.

 

It's about the skill of the one that owns the gun.

 

Personally, I've had men of varying size. I prefer them to be no smaller than 4 inches fully erect, yet no longer than 6. I get maximum orgasms, with all pleasure and no pain. Anything above 6 inches, and we're limited in positions unless I am willing to deal with pain or discomfort (I'd rather not).

 

Mmmm. Sexiest thing I've seen on this site, LOL.

 

I had heard that women liked 7-9 inches for ... whatever various pleasures come from very deep penetration? Won't get into anatomical specifics here. But good to know that to at least one girl, I am above average.

[azsinglegal]

Except you blamed men's piggish, lustful behavior toward you on porn. When in fact, the opposite is almost always what happens. That's where you failed. If certain men are piggish, it's because they are piggish. That's how they were raised.

 

You are also inventing blame toward men because you, inherently, are a man-hater. That's the other problem. Speculation? Yeah, but it is pretty obvious from everything you type on here.

 

I don't expect you to know everything about men. The problem is when you pretend to, or lie to yourself that you do. You were wrong on that point. Be big enough to admit it and move on. You've had 2 guys so far point out your misconception on this issue. Also, stop with the man hating and blaming of men for all your problems. For the sake of your own happiness.

 

 

Really? I'm a man hater? Do you just make this stuff up?

 

Thanks for the laugh!

[ChessPieceFace]

Really? I'm a man hater?

 

Yep.

 

Let me further help your frame of reference, so you understand how this is the case -- a large number of western women are man haters. Many with men of their own. They blame everything on men, disrespect their men, and society tells them that is normal and correct. TV, movies, magazines tell them that is correct. They go through life living in that poisonous mental bubble together with other like-minded women, not seeing their erroneous behavior or why it ends up destroying all their relationships.

 

You don't see it because you have surrounded yourself with a like-minded group of females where man hating is the norm. You, thus, don't believe you are out of the ordinary or a "man hater" because you conform to this unhealthy "norm." I see it in your posts. Stop believing the lies of society and of your female peers. You will never be happy in relationships until you change it.

 

I doubt you have the capacity for self-realization or introspection necessary to recognize this behavior in yourself. Feel free to prove me wrong though.

[somedude81]

LOL, CPF you have no idea what you're talking about.

 

She's a man hater because she's a western woman?

[ChessPieceFace]

LOL, CPF you have no idea what you're talking about.

 

She's a man hater because she's a western woman?

 

No, she's a man hater from the tone and frequent statements in her posts, and because she makes up totally inaccurate analyses of things like the effects of porn (piggish behavior) just so she can blame things on men.

 

The reference to western women was to make the point that she is surrounded by like-minded man-haters, thus clouding her view of what is correct and normal. A man-hater around a bunch of other man-haters, in a man-hating culture, will have a harder time seeing anything wrong in their behavior.

[joystickd]

No, she's a man hater from the tone and frequent statements in her posts, and because she makes up totally inaccurate analyses of things like the effects of porn (piggish behavior) just so she can blame things on men.

 

The reference to western women was to make the point that she is surrounded by like-minded man-haters, thus clouding her view of what is correct and normal. A man-hater around a bunch of other man-haters, in a man-hating culture, will have a harder time seeing anything wrong in their behavior.

 

Since you are an expert how long has this misandry been going on. Is anyone actually on the level of Valerie Soldanas type of man hate? Are there black helicopters involved? How long before they are integrated into our government?

[ChessPieceFace]

Not gonna feed trolls anymore. Incidentally, the same troll that thinks morality is an illusion, and whose first sexual experience was adultery. The topic of one woman's misandry is OT anyway.

 

It's ridicilous that some men care so much about what women will think about their penis size.

 

Women do not care about penises at all, nevermind the size of them.

 

Women do not even like penises.

 

To women penises are irrelevant.

 

To a good portion of all women penises are down right nasty.

 

Alot of women would rather not touch or get near any penis at all.

 

Do these women have healthy sex lives though? Are the men they are with happy? I doubt it.

[azsinglegal]

Yep.

 

Let me further help your frame of reference, so you understand how this is the case -- a large number of western women are man haters. Many with men of their own. They blame everything on men, disrespect their men, and society tells them that is normal and correct. TV, movies, magazines tell them that is correct. They go through life living in that poisonous mental bubble together with other like-minded women, not seeing their erroneous behavior or why it ends up destroying all their relationships.

 

You don't see it because you have surrounded yourself with a like-minded group of females where man hating is the norm. You, thus, don't believe you are out of the ordinary or a "man hater" because you conform to this unhealthy "norm." I see it in your posts. Stop believing the lies of society and of your female peers. You will never be happy in relationships until you change it.

 

I doubt you have the capacity for self-realization or introspection necessary to recognize this behavior in yourself. Feel free to prove me wrong though.

 

I'm not a man hater, but I don't like you at the moment.

 

And not because you're a man, but because you are a judgmental person who's categorized me based on a handful of posts I've made here.

 

You have no idea who I am. I think you're baiting me for an argument, in which case I'm way too busy for you.

[Kcelleste]

Im 19 years old and have a 2.5 non erect penis and 5 inch erect penis. It is 5 inches in girth measuring from the base. I have asked people and they all make fun of me calling me tiny. They say due to my height of 6 feet I should be 7 inches. They said women will laugh at me and never sleep with me do to my size. Is my life over? Am I a joke?

 

I used to be the kind of girl who wouldn't sleep with a guy if he wasn't over seven inches in length in between. I once slept with a guy I dated who had the same width and length as your penis. I only went through with it because I really liked him and was willing to make it work. I had the most intense orgasms with him. Now, I don't care too much for the big ones. They hurt me anyway.

[joystickd]

Just learn to be good at oral. All women love a good tongue lashing lol. You will realize not all women are size queens. Its just a very small percentage.

[somedude81]

I used to be the kind of girl who wouldn't sleep with a guy if he wasn't over seven inches in length in between.

How did you get into that mindset? And how did you know the guy was big before you slept with him?

I once slept with a guy I dated who had the same width and length as your penis. I only went through with it because I really liked him and was willing to make it work. I had the most intense orgasms with him. Now, I don't care too much for the big ones. They hurt me anyway.

Heh, nice change of mind.

 

Still if you were getting hurt by the big ones, why did you keep chasing them?