Am I too small?

[El Brujo]

Im 19 years old and have a 2.5 non erect penis and 5 inch erect penis. It is 5 inches in girth measuring from the base. I have asked people and they all make fun of me calling me tiny. They say due to my height of 6 feet I should be 7 inches. They said women will laugh at me and never sleep with me do to my size. Is my life over? Am I a joke?

 

Not if you stop feeling sorry for yourself and get rich. Then they'll sing a different tune.

[azsinglegal]

Yes, it pleases me and it works perfectly. For my 5'7 skinny-athletic college freshman body it seems to be proportionate to my body. But I figure it overlaps a bit when I hold my johnson, so I figure you wouldn't get much pleasure from me compared to your current BF, huh? That's the underlying concern, regardless of how ridiculous or realistic it sounds.

 

And I'm sure there are people who'd think either/or for many reasons, both good and bad. It's certainly not as thick as my wrist.. I'M perfectly happy with myself personally, I'm just a bit uneasy about how someone else might feel, someone who isn't me. If I meet a girl and we're perfect in every other way, I'd rather her NOT ultimately have to look elsewhere to have her needs met or lie to me when she's not completely happy with me. What would I have accomplished then if I'm looking for something serious and meaningful? I don't want to be her friend, I want to be her lover.

 

Guess I just don't have it. Oh well, at least I know ahead of time. Saves me a lot of trouble. Do you guys think that buddhist Monks ever have wild orgies from time to time?

 

If your woman goes somewhere else to be pleased it has nothing to do with the size of your penis.

 

The thin penis guy was great in many ways just like my current man is great in many ways. Each guy is different...I've said it before, it's the size of your BRAIN that matters...not so much the size of your penis.

 

Also, I really enjoyed the thin guy cuz it was long and since my g spot is way up high he hit it perfectly. I had amazing orgasms with him...the current man I have issues with because it's so big. We can only have sex about once every 3-4 days cuz sometimes he literally tears me.

Edited October 27, 2011 by azsinglegal

[bac]

I asked a girl out and she said yes my main ccpncrn is I'll disapoint her. Will I?

 

You will upset her if you are going to use your penis on the first dates for anything (either for conversation or for sexual activities). Your penis is the last thing that might be a dealbreaker unless you want to use it when she is not ready yet. It does not matter what your penis is. But, if you are planning on using it during the first dates, you are probably going to lose.

[azsinglegal]

i am not trolling.

 

 

So my size is fine. Right?

 

stop obsessing over your penis!

[wezol]

I am not trolling.

 

 

So my size is fine. Right?

 

 

No, it's not. That's small. Drink milk, A LOT of milk, then run head first into a wall.

[oaks]

You will upset her if you are going to use your penis on the first dates for anything (either for conversation or for sexual activities). Your penis is the last thing that might be a dealbreaker unless you want to use it when she is not ready yet. It does not matter what your penis is. But, if you are planning on using it during the first dates, you are probably going to lose.

 

Great answer.

[Untouchable_Fire]

If your woman goes somewhere else to be pleased it has nothing to do with the size of your penis.

The thin penis guy was great in many ways just like my current man is great in many ways. Each guy is different...I've said it before, it's the size of your BRAIN that matters...not so much the size of your penis.

Also, I really enjoyed the thin guy cuz it was long and since my g spot is way up high he hit it perfectly. I had amazing orgasms with him...the current man I have issues with because it's so big. We can only have sex about once every 3-4 days cuz sometimes he literally tears me.

 

It depends on what the woman is looking for... guys with really big dicks have women around the block. That's just the way it is.

[azsinglegal]

It depends on what the woman is looking for... guys with really big dicks have women around the block. That's just the way it is.

 

Do you also know that some guys (most) with really big dicks can't get fully erect?

 

Smaller fully hard penis > semi hard big penis

 

Also...most men with big dicks don't try as much in bed. They think cuz they have a big one they don't have to make any other effort. While men with average penises make a much larger effort to please the woman even before penetration.

[somedude81]

Do you also know that some guys (most) with really big dicks can't get fully erect?

 

Smaller fully hard penis > semi hard big penis

Hmm that's pretty interesting.

 

I'm just average, but I get rock hard very easily.

 

Though I wonder if Viagra can help the bigger guys reach full capacity?

[azsinglegal]

Hmm that's pretty interesting.

 

I'm just average, but I get rock hard very easily.

 

Though I wonder if Viagra can help the bigger guys reach full capacity?

 

I don't know. The guys I've been with who needed it were average.

[somedude81]

So your current boyfriend gets hard no problem?

[azsinglegal]

So your current boyfriend gets hard no problem?

 

Yup. But he's not huge, just very large. It's not like a 10" giant. LOL

 

And no, I haven't measured it...just that it's as thick as my wrist.

[somedude81]

Heh, 10" giants don't exist. That's like one in a billion.

 

Now I'm wondering how big he really is.

 

One thing I noticed, is that women have trouble telling how big things are. I don't mean any offense by that, it's just something I've heard about and experienced. I once had a woman ask me if a pencil box was 8 inches long and just from looking at I knew that it was only 6. The sticker on the back that said 6" confirmed it Then she said something about women not being able to tell how big things are.

 

Heh, next time you get together with your BF, attack him with a ruler and a measuring tape

[azsinglegal]

Heh, 10" giants don't exist. That's like one in a billion.

 

Now I'm wondering how big he really is.

 

One thing I noticed, is that women have trouble telling how big things are. I don't mean any offense by that, it's just something I've heard about and experienced. I once had a woman ask me if a pencil box was 8 inches long and just from looking at I knew that it was only 6. The sticker on the back that said 6" confirmed it Then she said something about women not being able to tell how big things are.

 

Heh, next time you get together with your BF, attack him with a ruler and a measuring tape

 

I'll see him tonight thru the weekend. But...I dunno if he'll want me to measure his junk.

 

This is the best size estimate I can give you (from a picture he sent me)...you know the full size barbasol can? (it's shaving cream). His penis can hide the whole thing behind it.

[somedude81]

I'll see him tonight thru the weekend. But...I dunno if he'll want me to measure his junk.

 

This is the best size estimate I can give you (from a picture he sent me)...you know the full size barbasol can? (it's shaving cream). His penis can hide the whole thing behind it.

Hmm, then I feel sorry for you.

 

I did a little research and while the can is only 6" long it's 8" around. Which is ridiculously huge.

[Untouchable_Fire]

Do you also know that some guys (most) with really big dicks can't get fully erect?

Smaller fully hard penis > semi hard big penis

Also...most men with big dicks don't try as much in bed. They think cuz they have a big one they don't have to make any other effort. While men with average penises make a much larger effort to please the woman even before penetration.

 

I have no experience with dicks other than my own. Personally, I think measuring it, obsessing over it, and looking for porn with big dicks is all very homosexual. That's just my opinion.

 

I grew up in the 90's before internet porn took over. I just don't understand the turn on of some lady getting a baseball bat sized dick shoved in her butt while her head is jammed into a toilet and the guy shouts insults at her. How can that be erotic? WTF?

 

Personally I think porn and the media have had a bad influence on the self esteem of young men.

 

On the other hand I do remember in high school several times there was a rumor going around that this guy or that had a big penis. The girls would practically fight each other to have him.

[oaks]

Heh, 10" giants don't exist.

 

You don't watch enough porn.

[azsinglegal]

Hmm, then I feel sorry for you.

 

I did a little research and while the can is only 6" long it's 8" around. Which is ridiculously huge.

 

Why do you feel sorry for me?

 

Really? That's huge? I guess I'm just used to it now...I know at first I was scared. And it does tear me sometimes. I'm not that big down there anyway.

[oaks]

Personally I think porn and the media have had a bad influence on the self esteem of young men.

 

Yup.

 

 

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[azsinglegal]

Personally I think porn and the media have had a bad influence on the self esteem of young men.

 

And women. We're expected to look like that and act like that...love all that creepy weird stuff men want to do to us and beg for more.

 

Not to mention, we're supposed to orgasm on the drop of a hat too. It gives men the wrong idea of what sex is really about.

[somedude81]

Why do you feel sorry for me?

 

Really? That's huge? I guess I'm just used to it now...I know at first I was scared. And it does tear me sometimes. I'm not that big down there anyway.

If he's really 8 inches which is unlikely, that's freakishly huge.

 

Remember as we were talking earlier, the average girth is 5 inches around. That is what the average vagina is designed to accommodate. Something 8" should make you feel like you're giving birth.

 

Look at it this way, the average 6 X 5 penis has a volume of 12 cubic inches while an 6 X 8 is 30 cubic inches. If he is 8 x 8, which is more possible as length is almost always greater than girth, it would be 40 cubic inches.

[Untouchable_Fire]

And women. We're expected to look like that and act like that...love all that creepy weird stuff men want to do to us and beg for more.

Not to mention, we're supposed to orgasm on the drop of a hat too. It gives men the wrong idea of what sex is really about.

 

Look like what? A porn star? Are you trying to infer that men now want you to wear makeup during sex... because that's pretty much all porn stars have going vs. regular women.

 

About a year ago I was arguing with one of my friends... Matt, who claimed porn has taught him to be a better lover. Seriously I'm not sure what it could teach a guy to make him better. I think he said he learned to "go real fast" and "ejaculate on her face"... or maybe that was my joke... I can't remember.

[azsinglegal]

If he's really 8 inches which is unlikely, that's freakishly huge.

 

Remember as we were talking earlier, the average girth is 5 inches around. That is what the average vagina is designed to accommodate. Something 8" should make you feel like you're giving birth.

 

Look at it this way, the average 6 X 5 penis has a volume of 12 cubic inches while an 6 X 8 is 30 cubic inches. If he is 8 x 8, which is more possible as length is almost always greater than girth, it would be 40 cubic inches.

 

Well, whatever that can is...and yes, it can be uncomfortable at first. I'm really not full of BS. I was shocked too.

[azsinglegal]

Look like what? A porn star? Are you trying to infer that men now want you to wear makeup during sex... because that's pretty much all porn stars have going vs. regular women.

 

About a year ago I was arguing with one of my friends... Matt, who claimed porn has taught him to be a better lover. Seriously I'm not sure what it could teach a guy to make him better. I think he said he learned to "go real fast" and "ejaculate on her face"... or maybe that was my joke... I can't remember.

 

Long hair, fake tits, tan, no cellulite...perfect little size 0 bodies.

 

Oh yeah...we LOVE it on the face and we really like when you jam us so hard in the ass we get a pink sock. Makes me want to beg for more.

[Untouchable_Fire]

Long hair, fake tits, tan, no cellulite...perfect little size 0 bodies.

Oh yeah...we LOVE it on the face and we really like when you jam us so hard in the ass we get a pink sock. Makes me want to beg for more.

 

Those beauty standards are more fashion standards than porn standards, with the exception of fake tits... and I really think most guys don't like that.

 

I hate fake boobs... they only look good when a woman has her clothes on... How much does that suck?! Like finding out at the last minute the guys abs are spray on.

 

Either way... I don't think you should blame porn for pre-existing beauty standards. Now if you said brazilian waxes... that is a porn thing. Personally it's gross... to me it mimics pre-puberty youth. Nothing below the age of 21 is going to be able to turn me on.

 

Anyway... the point is that guys today watch tons of porn. It changes they way they see themselves in terms of penis size and body shape. Jeeze I see interracial porn is pretty popular, but I tried to watch it one time and its incredibly racist. Makes it almost unwatchable. I think the guys who produce it and watch it think of it in the same terms as bestiality.