Martin2014 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 i had been seeing this girl for 2 years and suddenly never heard from her and we consequently broke up, with no explanation. After several months we decided to give it another go, however I found out during this time that she had been seeing someone else and she was still in contact with him. We saw each other and as time got on I couldn't take the fact that she was in contact with him so started keeping tabs on her movements via social networking sites, which prompted me to consider a break up on more than 1 occasion. the final straw came when she said she had no interest in him yet still persisted to talk to him even though I said it made me angry. I lashed out at her verbally (really badly insulting her and her "partner" which led to me ending it because I didn't like who I was becoming!! I presume more than likely that she is now seeing this guy, however I cant help but think that I miss her. I have dated since then but my mind has been occupied by my thoughts of her. I do want to talk to her however I don't know how to break the ice seeing as she still seems angry with me! Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
joseph17 Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 I'm not sure if there is anything you can do but contacting her won't hurt anything. I would hit her up and see how she is doing but be casual and don't be needy and desperate. And you spying on her was not cool anyway unless you found something you really didn't like and if you did then why do you still want to talk to her. It sucks when you become obsessive over a girl because you don't trust and I totally understand why you where angry I would have been too. But where you guys Together exclusively or was there no agreement on what was to happen? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Martin2014 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 (edited) Thanks for the reply. Funny you should ask that, when we got back together I said that we should go slow, then we started talking about moving in together. This is when the arguments started cos I wanted to live with her but was more committed to my family. We was exclusive as she said on more than 1 occasion she did not like the other guy ( although I heard her tell her friend she missed him). I wanna talk to her purely on a friend basis cos she was a decent person (outside a relationship). Yes obsession got the better of me Edited October 18, 2011 by Martin2014 Forgot something Link to post Share on other sites
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