lovelost1288 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 So ill make a long story kinda short. my first love and i are tryin to work things out after being apart for 3 years. We were high school sweet hearts and the happiest couple for 4 years. We broke up because i cheated on her while she had to move to a different country for 6 months. i was honest with her about it when she came back and she couldnt forgive me for it. During our break up she was very promiscuous. Now that doesnt bother me too much. But when we tried to work things out the first time she lied to me about all of it. which bothered me. i found out that she had a threesome with her best friend and her boyfriend. she had about 8sexual partners. We failed the first time we tried to patch things up. too many lies and we based our relationship on sex.Some time has passed now we would like to try again. We decided to be friends first. Now i find out that she lied to me about her past before we met as well it seems she was sexually active since she was 14. She was finally honest about it but im starting to think shes too much of a liar to take a chance with her. But she tells me that she knows im the one and wants to continue to work things out and finally open up to me. I still love her after so many years and she feels the same is that normal? im willing to give it another shot but What bothers me is that she lied me in my face about so many things will she continue to. Now she admits to going through a (slut phase) but can someone really change? Am i doing the right thing by giving this another shot? Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 well, that's up for you to decide. The problem I see is that she's used to lying to you with conseqences for her actions. She says I'm sorry and you take her back. I mean, you're not perfect and you cheated once. You made a mistake and you had an opps! But, she broke it with you and proceeded to have 8 oppses!!! That's dangerous behavior to me. So, what happens that if you get together and you have a fight? Is she gonna have another threesome because she was mad at you and you deserved it for treating her badly? You have a lot to think about dude. She's telling you that she's changed. Okay, how has she shown you that she's changed? Link to post Share on other sites
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