LILUIL Posted May 18, 2004 Share Posted May 18, 2004 I have been thinking and thinking non stop lately about everything in my life and in my relationships with people and the way things turned out over the years.... if given a choice i wouldn't want to go back in time to change the wrongs, maybe just one or two, but in general it was the wrongs and many mistakes that made me who i am today, not perfect but more ready to face tomorrow. a week ago i found this website and started ranting about an obviously dumba$$ bf who obviously planned to be non existant, today i feel liberated and already ready to move on to other pursuits in this beautiful gift call life. man, i realise im a non repentant melancholic! but not being able to stay in grief for long, giving not more than a thought to regrets does anyone out there identify or do i have some other problem? swear im not on drugs! haha Link to post Share on other sites
Shindig Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 If it was time for the relationship to end then its not too suprising that you're not too bummed about it. If you were still getting a lot out of it, i.e. support, learning things, having fun, then it would be normal to be sad about it. If you weren't getting these things out of the relaitonship and you have a good support system, then its normal to get over it pretty quickly. If you're worried about having attatchment issues, talk to a counselor. Congrats on the newfound freedom. Link to post Share on other sites
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